Beachbumin Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I found myself reading other stories trying to piece together an answer and decided I'll just join and get y'alls input. My ex and I met when we were teens and now 5 years later and after living together for sometime, we decided to call it off. I have been reading about NC and agree with many points. Most of which revolve around the basis that both parties need time to gather thoughts. My dilemma is that we had a discussion when I came home from visisting my family for Christmas and she told me that she needed her space and wants to find herself again.(We were no longer living together at this point) There were plenty of tears and emotions but we then proceeded to see in the new years together. We had an amazing time that night and enjoyed eachothers company the next day. On the 2nd, now back to work, I respected her wishes and as discussed, changed my FB status to 'single' as did she. (as silly as that sounds) Since then there has been no contact and I have been strggling with the idea of touching base with her to see how she is doing. We have known eachother for so long and to go from laughs and kisses to nothing is killing me. But, she asked for her space and I am trying to give that to her. Any input out there?
bpdr Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I found myself reading other stories trying to piece together an answer and decided I'll just join and get y'alls input. My ex and I met when we were teens and now 5 years later and after living together for sometime, we decided to call it off. I have been reading about NC and agree with many points. Most of which revolve around the basis that both parties need time to gather thoughts. My dilemma is that we had a discussion when I came home from visisting my family for Christmas and she told me that she needed her space and wants to find herself again.(We were no longer living together at this point) There were plenty of tears and emotions but we then proceeded to see in the new years together. We had an amazing time that night and enjoyed eachothers company the next day. On the 2nd, now back to work, I respected her wishes and as discussed, changed my FB status to 'single' as did she. (as silly as that sounds) Since then there has been no contact and I have been strggling with the idea of touching base with her to see how she is doing. We have known eachother for so long and to go from laughs and kisses to nothing is killing me. But, she asked for her space and I am trying to give that to her. Any input out there? 5 years? At ANY TIME -----> had you thought of putting a ring on her finger??? All WOMEN want that at some point. Do some soul searching.....seriously.....then ask yourself what YOU were looking for here. The answer to that question, will tell you what to do next. That is - if it already isn't too late. Women grow tired of men whom cannot make up their minds. Trust that.
Cali408 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 yeah, very simple. give her space. don't contact her, if she comes back great, but move on with your life
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