frederickkk Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Guys, you are all f.cuking amazing for helping me, but i'm getting her back. So, 1. she clearly still gets my emails. if i keep emailing, im her backup, plan b. if i stop, she finally has a chance to miss me, although thats pointless because she is in uni and wants to move on anyway. 2. do i write her a letter and post it valentines day? 3. do i write her a letter and post it in summer? p.s. she may have called the cop shop because i turned up at her college, she may have changed her number because i went nuts on the texts after being rejected, but i sure as hell am not being arrested, and if she isn't getting my emails, then a letter here or there isn't harassment.
todreaminblue Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Guys, you are all f.cuking amazing for helping me, but i'm getting her back. So, 1. she clearly still gets my emails. if i keep emailing, im her backup, plan b. if i stop, she finally has a chance to miss me, although thats pointless because she is in uni and wants to move on anyway. 2. do i write her a letter and post it valentines day? 3. do i write her a letter and post it in summer? p.s. she may have called the cop shop because i turned up at her college, she may have changed her number because i went nuts on the texts after being rejected, but i sure as hell am not being arrested, and if she isn't getting my emails, then a letter here or there isn't harassment. you are skating at the thin end of despair........you wont get her back and you are going to get in trouble.Let it go for a little while.If loveshack is so amazing you havent been listening to what people have posted to you....let her contact you otherwise it is harrassment.....lengthened time between emails is only a heart beat from collecting them all together.......dont do it.....let her come to you....deb
sharsh Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) How many times do we have to tell you NOT to contact her? Regardless if you think you're "plan b" (which shows you have no self respect for yourself for being okay with this..) if you ever get her back, you will STILL be plan b, and once she finds someone else, she'll just kick you to the curb. Again. Edited January 6, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Mr.White Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) Dude just STOP, you are a crazy ex boyfriend. If she wanted to be with you, she would have contacted you during the 5 month you were not together. YOU ARE SINGLE, cope with it. Edited January 6, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 3
spaniard Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 The only chance to get her back if you keep sending those e-mails. BUT! It's very important to send at least 5-6 per day. Studies have shown that less than 5 letters a day to an ex-gf make them forget you within 24 hours. If you are a true fighter as you said before, you can send even 10+ letters a day. There is practically NO WAY that she wouldn't fall in love with you again. You are doing great, fred. Harass her, stalk her, keep sending those letters and you'll finally reach your goals. It's a myth that women love those men who are strong and confident. It's simply not true. Women are attracted to the pathetic, sobbing wrecks like yourself. Good luck, dude! 3
bpdr Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Dood, just give it up. Even I am humiliated by even being associated with the same gender as you, hopeless and demeaning efforts NEVER work in your case. Just you posting the same crapola every other week speaks volumes to the lack of dignity you hold in reserve. Humanity has flaws - but you seem to bring about a NEW definition to stalking. Seriously dude - go out and have a drink. Hang out in some pubs and find a "Hit and Quit" type of girl. Even, if for only one or two nights.... Maybe then, you MIGHT see the error of your ways. Chick doesn't wanna see you and moved on. Only YOUR heart was dumb enough to stay behind.... Get the picture idiot? Get out and meet new girls. Enough already! 2
mammasita Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 You can't be this we-todd-ed, can you? I almost want to call the police on you. I hope she's smart and gets a restraining order.
HaveFaithxx Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 This guy is obviously kidding around. He is trying to show us how pathetic we are. Dont even answer him. He's just trying to take the piss out of us. 1
itsmyfault Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I agree with the above, It's pure trolling. the sad thing is he is wanting a response, trying to take the piss out of everyone one here... What he doesn't realise is people on here aren't the desperate ones craving attention..
spaniard Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 i first realized that he was a troll when he wrote that he emailed her 16 times on that day.
Zammo25 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 no trolling here folks Whatever. It is very insulting to be taking the piss and praying on the good people on here, going through their own heartbreaks for your own ego and look at me threads. Why are you doing it ? 1
Mcnulty Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Fred aint a troll. He's an insulated individual with a muted view of relationships I think. Fred, your filter is letting through an awful lot of advice. I'm not sure if any of it gets through to your brain mate...does it? If it's his way of verrrryyyy slowly coming to terms with his loss, who are we to question his motives really? It's a free for all forum and he's allowed to put what's on his mind on here, if you dont want to waste time, dont reply or comment. Fred, promise me this please....thank people more often will you? Just a little manners may help your cause, cause that's the only bit of your stuff that winds me up!
turnera Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 What have you changed about yourself since she left you? Nothing? Then what makes you think she would choose you NOW?
Minadee Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Guys, give up. I think this is a lost cause. It's one thing to ask for help but to completley throw it in the trash without any regard or even TRYING to help yourself is becoming insulting! Atleast try and read the advice here. If you fail, that's fine. We are all here and supporting eachother. But you are not trying at all! 1
geegirl Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I think the advice giving, thread after thread only enables his obsession, back and forth, round in circles, going nowhere.
Author frederickkk Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Don't give up, Fred. Nobody likes a quitter. You're right mate. No one likes a quitter. I'm very tempted to go to her house.
Author frederickkk Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 I think the advice giving, thread after thread only enables his obsession, back and forth, round in circles, going nowhere. You're right. But I'm not giving in on this girl. Not a chance.
turnera Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 fred, do you understand the term facetiousness?
geegirl Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 You're right mate. No one likes a quitter. I'm very tempted to go to her house. Then go already. Quit talking about it for months, hiding behind your computer.
littlesunshine Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Oh gracious, just stop. This might sounds harsh, but just stop. If anyone wants to be with you they would definitely try to make it happen. You should just move on
portableversion Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Guys, you are all f.cuking amazing for helping me, but i'm getting her back. So, 1. she clearly still gets my emails. if i keep emailing, im her backup, plan b. if i stop, she finally has a chance to miss me, although thats pointless because she is in uni and wants to move on anyway. 2. do i write her a letter and post it valentines day? 3. do i write her a letter and post it in summer? p.s. she may have called the cop shop because i turned up at her college, she may have changed her number because i went nuts on the texts after being rejected, but i sure as hell am not being arrested, and if she isn't getting my emails, then a letter here or there isn't harassment. if thats all you do is send her a nice and polite hand written letter once every couple of months then maybe perhaps. Stay away from valentines day though. And keep it short and simple just say hey i was thinking about you, and confess yourself....say openly hey i miss you and i wish we hadnt broke up, i would like to see you again and ive worked on all the issues on my side of the street which led to the break up. do you even know why you broke up? watch it bro . dont stalk and dont send letters and emails its one or the other. And with the emails just like hand written letters just one every other month or so. I dont know your situation you may have already scared the daylights out of her. She'll use you as a foil to test her new man. Hey my ex is creeping me out can you kick his butt..you love me dont you... go beat him up and ill.............for you.............oh baby ill tear him up real good. he'll be in the hospital for weeks.....ok sugar you do that and ill do this xoxoxoxxx your such a good man to protect me from my psycho ex! i love you and dude your only plan b if she sending out breadcrumbs this does not appear to be the case at all& your worried shes called the cops. dude shes going to uni i think shes gone from you, your best bet is to get your act together and find what you want to do for a living and goto a different uni yourself. thats the best dating pool out there. And dont be a psycho, all your gonna do is get into trouble with the cops or get beat up real bad, or both you acknowledge she wants to move on, going against this is very risky behavior. you will ruin whatever chance you have at getting back together. i really have the feeling she is very done with you. most people goto uni and never look back, that environment is very intoxicating making one really forget what happened in the past, though my ex did give her ex a chance but he didnt pull the crap youve pulled, he didnt send her a bunch of texts and emails he went nc. im not sure how the relink was made but it failed in the end
Renard99 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 But I'm not giving in on this girl. I don't mean to sound harsh.... but why do you come back and ask questions? You've clearly stated, as I've quoted above, that you're not going to give up on this girl. Now this is something that no one has, or will ever recommend. Why bother to continue to asking the questions when you have your own answer. You are insulting all of those wonderfull people here that are giving you advice. You're asking questions that you don't want to hear the answers to so just don't ask them! Go your own way, do your own thing, but don't keep coming back to us when things don't work because, having told you over and over again what will happen, all we will be able to say is 'we told you so'.
spaniard Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 the problem is, fred, that you keep opening threads like "I've emailed her 16 times today. what should i do now?" or "ok i go nc. JUST KIDDIN. i don't. what should i do now?" it makes no sense. you are wasting our time. i remember writing long-long posts in your first ~ten threads of yours. I felt your pain because we were dumped almost at the same time. you got so much advice even I benefited from them because they were so useful. but you didn't. when one thread was full of posts saying the truth, you created a new one ALL THE TIME. you NEVER listened. so why are you doing this?
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