james4bond Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Hi peeps I could do with your effective advise on this one I was in a relationship with this girl for 4 years and we have a kid together(she`s 3 now). We broke up in `11 because I broke her trust. 4 months after she was seeing someone else and this went on for 9months, all the while I would let her know I still love and care for her and wanted her back. A week ago she broke up with him for breaking her trust and I stupidly went immediately to profess my need for us to get back together but she obviously got scared and pressured and says she really wants to be close friends with me but cant see herself in a relationship anytime soon due to her trust issues. We still text and talk but I love her so much and want her back, Whats the best step for me. Do I let her go since we both want different things? Do I be a friend to her now since she's hurting and risk breaking my heart in the future when she's ready to date again and its not me? Or do I try to convince her I want to be the man she wanted me to be back then?
CptSaveAho Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Leave her alone.... Let her come back on her own... She probably wont come back if she had any common sense Move forward
Author james4bond Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 I was thinking to let her be.. But she keeps texting trying to talk and bring up stories of what our kid does when she has her. Now we never talked like this while she was with the other guy.. but its really hard to let go when I see my kid everytime, I think about how awesome we were as a family and miss her more.
Maneater Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I know it must be hard especially with the kid now. It's really hard but try to not initiate contact first.
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