Author crashvector Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 You are a VERY nice person, and I'm sure your friends who are women are seeing this/ and have witnessed this. I don't blame them for coming on to you. Simply do what you believe your ready for, and I expect you to be A-ok. Why, thank you VERY much for the vote of confidence. I'm a nurse for a reason, that's for sure...because I CARE about what happens to other people, and I like helping them. Although, admittedly, i generally prefer women older than me than ones my age or younger.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 . Although, admittedly, i generally prefer women older than me than ones my age or younger. If the older ones didnt work, why not try others? Maybe the older ones reach a stage in life that your not at yet
Author crashvector Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 . Although, admittedly, i generally prefer women older than me than ones my age or younger. If the older ones didnt work, why not try others? Maybe the older ones reach a stage in life that your not at yet But they have SUCH a sense of elegance and grace...of class and sophistication that I find IRRESISTABLE.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 But they have SUCH a sense of elegance and grace...of class and sophistication that I find IRRESISTABLE. Lols your a difficult one but maybe a little older? And there are younger women who are sophisticated and elegant as well. Explore your options! Seems like mature women get to a stage where they are happy single and just devote to kids or whatever they have. My mothers friends are single at first it wasnt by choice. But when they reached maybe 45+ they were comfortable with their life and felt like they didnt need anyone anymore.
Author crashvector Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Lols your a difficult one but maybe a little older? And there are younger women who are sophisticated and elegant as well. Explore your options! Seems like mature women get to a stage where they are happy single and just devote to kids or whatever they have. My mothers friends are single at first it wasnt by choice. But when they reached maybe 45+ they were comfortable with their life and felt like they didnt need anyone anymore. lol...i just REALLY like elegant, sophisticated women with a sense of class and grace. lol
Mr.White Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Oh crash, I wish one of my female friends would ask to have sex with me, I would know the answers to each one! ;D I think you are still emotionally wrecked, and have not had enough time to move on. Like in previous posts on this thread if you feel like you will/might ruin the friendship you have with this woman do not kiss or have any sort of sexual contact with her. A 18 year old friendship is not worth spoiling over post-break up sex (though those 38 DD's and camo panties sound ever so tempting!). But once the drinks start pouring, everyone becomes comfortable, everyone starts dancing, and then begin to leave I bet she will be the last guest in your home or with you... then you will probably have a very different (drunken, and most likely horny) mindset. Just have a condom in case I say (Don't want an accident happening). Good luck with whatever decision you make next Friday! Happy early birthday and have fun
christine07 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Oh crash, I wish one of my female friends would ask to have sex with me, I would know the answers to each one! ;D I think you are still emotionally wrecked, and have not had enough time to move on. Like in previous posts on this thread if you feel like you will/might ruin the friendship you have with this woman do not kiss or have any sort of sexual contact with her. A 18 year old friendship is not worth spoiling over post-break up sex (though those 38 DD's and camo panties sound ever so tempting!). But once the drinks start pouring, everyone becomes comfortable, everyone starts dancing, and then begin to leave I bet she will be the last guest in your home or with you... then you will probably have a very different (drunken, and most likely horny) mindset. Just have a condom in case I say (Don't want an accident happening). Good luck with whatever decision you make next Friday! Happy early birthday and have fun Agreed.. watch yourself when your inhibitions are down. Don't go head first into something you feel you might regret.
Author crashvector Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Oh crash, I wish one of my female friends would ask to have sex with me, I would know the answers to each one! ;D I think you are still emotionally wrecked, and have not had enough time to move on. Like in previous posts on this thread if you feel like you will/might ruin the friendship you have with this woman do not kiss or have any sort of sexual contact with her. A 18 year old friendship is not worth spoiling over post-break up sex (though those 38 DD's and camo panties sound ever so tempting!). But once the drinks start pouring, everyone becomes comfortable, everyone starts dancing, and then begin to leave I bet she will be the last guest in your home or with you... then you will probably have a very different (drunken, and most likely horny) mindset. Just have a condom in case I say (Don't want an accident happening). Good luck with whatever decision you make next Friday! Happy early birthday and have fun for the record: 36 DD's lol OH, i completely forgot about this part: She wants me to teach her to salsa dance at the party. She knows I've been taking ballroom dance lessons for years now, and said she wants to learn to salsa. gotta admit, salsa dancing is REALLY fun when you do it with someone you know and are comfortable with. My favorite dance, by FAR is the foxtrot though. So fun and romantic. The Argentine Tango....well....let's just say this...if I am in an exclusive relationship with someone else, the Argentine Tango is the ONLY dance I will not do with anyone except my girlfriend if she knows it. If she doesn't know it, then I just wont do it because its the closest thing you can get to actually having sex on the ballroom floor with your clothes on. Lots of touching, stroking, hiking her leg up around your waist, etc. Plus, its the ONLY dance done chest to chest. Basically, the partners stand 18 inches apart, and the woman leans in and rests her boobs on your chest. lol but WOOOOOOO......date a woman that knows the argentine tango...and DAMN you can have some naked fun in the bedroom. lmao!!!! Get all baby oiled up...and...ok..I gotta stop talking about this now..lol
todreaminblue Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Indeed..I dunno what I was thinking.... I guess I'm just really missing the affection right now...it feels really good to have someone you like show you affection...and not too many things have felt too good lately. I know how you feel affection is gorgeous....fuzzy like a warm doona....wraps you up in feel good hormones.......but this friend of yours is hinting at sex, and you arent ready......im not ready for sex, even though desire is there it has to be right.....this time....you havent mentioned your son in relation to this woman so i need to remind you he is going to grieve for your ex do you think its right to introduce someone else....its reality and reality sucks.....affection is something you can give your son many many hugs and kisses he will give you loads of affection adn when you are ready number one for yourself and number two for you son...it isnt just about you missing affection.....please just think first......i am not saying take six years...like i have ....lol......but give it time ask her to wait as another poster suggested you need to eb sure fro more than just yourself..smilin atcha .deb
Mr.White Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 for the record: 36 DD's lol OH, i completely forgot about this part: She wants me to teach her to salsa dance at the party. She knows I've been taking ballroom dance lessons for years now, and said she wants to learn to salsa. gotta admit, salsa dancing is REALLY fun when you do it with someone you know and are comfortable with. My favorite dance, by FAR is the foxtrot though. So fun and romantic. The Argentine Tango....well....let's just say this...if I am in an exclusive relationship with someone else, the Argentine Tango is the ONLY dance I will not do with anyone except my girlfriend if she knows it. If she doesn't know it, then I just wont do it because its the closest thing you can get to actually having sex on the ballroom floor with your clothes on. Lots of touching, stroking, hiking her leg up around your waist, etc. Plus, its the ONLY dance done chest to chest. Basically, the partners stand 18 inches apart, and the woman leans in and rests her boobs on your chest. lol but WOOOOOOO......date a woman that knows the argentine tango...and DAMN you can have some naked fun in the bedroom. lmao!!!! Get all baby oiled up...and...ok..I gotta stop talking about this now..lol Haha oh crash you reminded me of taking salsa classes. I will keep this post in mind for when I actually do find a place to teach me but that should not be hard since I do live in Southern California. Dancing = Girls I shall have my latina friends show me how to 'dance' Oh the dirty ideas I know have because of you. Give me 3 months and I should enroll if I have not spent my money recklessly by then!
Author crashvector Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 I know how you feel affection is gorgeous....fuzzy like a warm doona....wraps you up in feel good hormones.......but this friend of yours is hinting at sex, and you arent ready......im not ready for sex, even though desire is there it has to be right.....this time....you havent mentioned your son in relation to this woman so i need to remind you he is going to grieve for your ex do you think its right to introduce someone else....its reality and reality sucks.....affection is something you can give your son many many hugs and kisses he will give you loads of affection adn when you are ready number one for yourself and number two for you son...it isnt just about you missing affection.....please just think first......i am not saying take six years...like i have ....lol......but give it time ask her to wait as another poster suggested you need to eb sure fro more than just yourself..smilin atcha .deb Thanks, my friend from down under no..this time...I wont introduce her to my son until much, MUCH later. The only reason my son was hanging around my ex fiance is because we were about to get married in a few months. 1
Author crashvector Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) Haha oh crash you reminded me of taking salsa classes. I will keep this post in mind for when I actually do find a place to teach me but that should not be hard since I do live in Southern California. Dancing = Girls I shall have my latina friends show me how to 'dance' Oh the dirty ideas I know have because of you. Give me 3 months and I should enroll if I have not spent my money recklessly by then! Ive been taking ballroom for like 7 years now. My wing tsun instructor tried to force me to take ballet..and I was like "NO f-ing way." so, i took ballroom instead. My ex fiancee and I went on to win a few trophies in foxtrot and salsa. You talk about some SERIOUS fun. You wanna meet some SERIOUSLY sexy older women..ballroom is where to go. Hell, you wanna meet seriously beautiful/sexy women of just about any age...dance lessons is where to go. the ratio of women to men is something absurd, like 10 or 15:1. Edited January 4, 2013 by crashvector
itsmyfault Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 My opinion... Have some fun.. Don't have a relationship, the Girl never asked for one.. She wants no strings sex by the sounds of it. Even if you don't take the offer up straight away, you should sure as hell leave it open. At the end of the day it should just be harmless fun. You only live once, don't pass on opportunities because of someone who doesn't want you.
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