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And you wish you looked like me ?

You think i care if you like my tattoo or not ?

I bet you are overweight thats why you sound upset .

Yes im a bit angry because theres so much bul**** in this forum , people complaining about everything .

If the girlfriend is giving them attention they dont like , if they dont care about them most of you come here complaining and asking wtf is happening , asking us if i should send a sms after the first date or not , how long do i have to wait to send the first sms , and the one i like is , he doesnt like me and he is using me for sex , what am i doing wrong ... lol

 

Come on grow up

 

No, I do not wish I looked like you. Half your face is cut off. Probably best for our sakes, so thanks for that. And what are you..5'6", 145 soaking wet? And your tattoo just screams, "I let my little brother pick it out for me".

 

Anyways...telling people to "fck off"...don't expect too many kind responses.

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Does anyone else think she sounds controlling? Nagging him during his tv binges is one thing but during Christmas dinner? Come on now, don't we all splurge during the holidays? I'm sure there is a part of her that cares about his health but her controlling approach is all wrong and THAT I find "disgusting"! I get the feeling that even if he changes his diet and becomes healthier she will still find something to nag about.

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She's annoyingly passive aggressive, is what she is guilty of.

 

If she is the same person as the one that locked herself in the bedroom for 12 hours because she didn't get her expensive necklace, then that's a different story.

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KungFuJoe, I just looked up his other posts and YES he is the same guy! I didn't read all of the posts but now I really feel sorry for him. He needs to let go of this one!

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No, I do not wish I looked like you. Half your face is cut off. Probably best for our sakes, so thanks for that. And what are you..5'6", 145 soaking wet? And your tattoo just screams, "I let my little brother pick it out for me".

 

Anyways...telling people to "fck off"...don't expect too many kind responses.

 

Im not even going to waste time with you , you must have a problem in your head .

i dont care about responses to my post , i really dont , only people like you probably overweight , who likes to eat pizza all the time and blaming others for being skinny and you dont , answer to posts like mine , and i bet you are spending too much time in this forum , and learning now to be single and virgin at 40

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OP, it's not the fact that you're overweight it's the fact you eat unhealthy food. If you were gorging on carrots during the football game, I doubt she would complain.

 

I understand her motive for nagging but it's the way she went about it that was wrong. As someone has suggested, if you can compromise, then do so. The worst thing you can do is make a big fight out of food.

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but xpaperxcutx if he keeps eating like that , he is going to put weight .

yes it sucks to be told what to do all the time , but if he doesnt accept the fact that she is the way she is , he has to move on .

i bet that she isnt going to change , and he is starting to get upset , thats why he is posting here

or he accepts or not

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OP its just another way for her to assert her dominance over you. She's a big baby and she needs to be in control all the time. Do you guys live together or something?

 

18 is way too young to put up with the bulls.hit from the 2 threads you've posted about her.

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but xpaperxcutx if he keeps eating like that , he is going to put weight .

yes it sucks to be told what to do all the time , but if he doesnt accept the fact that she is the way she is , he has to move on .

i bet that she isnt going to change , and he is starting to get upset , thats why he is posting here

or he accepts or not

 

 

I don't disagree with you but he's 18; he still has years to go for various experiences. If it's his choice that he chooses to eat fast food in front of her, no one can blame her for disliking it. Chalk it to incompatibility.

 

On a sidenote, my ex bf always nagged to me about eating white bread. I just choose not to eat it in front of him. :laugh:

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Are you fit? I'm the same height and weight But I'm pretty fit (bike or exercise 4-5 per week). So she may be nagging that your not moving? Do start eating healthier but also start doing exercises together!

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Geez, didn't know about the necklace. Definitely leaning towards 'spoiled brat' on that one.

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Hard as it will be to believe me i'm not very fat most is muscle. I played football and wrestled in high school. I don't eat like that 24/7, just during certain points in the winter

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Hard as it will be to believe me i'm not very fat most is muscle. I played football and wrestled in high school. I don't eat like that 24/7, just during certain points in the winter

 

Are you making this up? You've completely ignored the people who have mentioned the fact that your gf is a spoiled brat who locked herself in a room for 12 hours because you wouldn't buy her an expensive necklace.

 

Unless you made that up as well.

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Me too. But the difference is women usually complain because they care about the guy's health, whereas men who complain are usually thinking about the girl's figure.

 

I was just talking to a waitress the other day who told me she finds it extremely unattractive, had nothing to do with health. My ex wife used to complain about my gut and tell me she wasn't attracted. Irony is after we divorced I got a lot happier and started working out and shed the weight. The hardest part was the first 120 pounds, but once she was gone the next 50 were easy :)

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