madlyinlove Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 For those of you who don't know my story i'll re-hash it briefly. I broke up with my gf about 2.5wks ago because she met another guy when she went away to work for 3wks. She said i was perfect for her and didn't want to loose me, but kept saying she was confused becasue she had feelings for this other guy. Lets just say it was a very messy breakup, but we finally went our seperate ways. I've been going out lots with my friends and was slowly getting over her. Id go night clubbing like every friday and saturday. The probelm was is that she kept "accedently" showing up at the club that i like to go to. (she never liked the club) The first time it happened it was very hard for me, but i finally walked away and went elsewhere. The next Saturday, it was 12pm at night when i finally decided to catch up with my friends at the club. Guess who is there AGAIN. this time i acted really cold and just said "hey, fancy meeting you here, anyway, i got go" then i turned around and hung out with my friends. She messaged me later saying she wanted to talk to me and that she wanted me back. Cause i still loved her, i gave in and called her...we talked for an hour or so...i finally went around her house at 7:30 the next morning. When i saw her, i didn't hug her or said i wanted her back, i just sat down on her bed and talked and laughed about things. All of a sudden she pushes me back on the bed and kisses me. She said she still loved me and wanted me back. She told the other guy to stop calling her and that she loved me more. I couldn't believe it, it was like a dream come true. Anyway, that night we had sex and gazed into each others eyes and said we loved each other. It was so magical. We've hung together for the last two days having such a great time. Last night i called her and caught her talking to the other guy again, she tells me that she is still confused because she thinks about the other guy still. She tells me that she doesn't want to hurt me and that she still loves me. But how can she do this to me. We both cried alot over the phone and broke up again!!! What the hell do i do now. i love this girl. do you think there is a chance that things will work out? or was i just used and played the fool. i need advice ...help please!!
honey2005 Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 I think you just need to start again on the "getting over her" period. You were already 2.5 weeks in and starting to feel better, then BAM, you're back in the same spot again. Next time, don't let that happen. You know how she treated you, and if she really did love you like she said, it wouldn't be any problem choosing between you and he other guy. My advice is to move on, hang out at different places where your ex won't know you're at, avoid her, and when she calls again saying "we need to talk" (because I really think she will), just ignore it. Break ups hurt bad enough without having to be pulled back into them over and over. Move on and start healing.
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