Author AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Does anyone have any experiences on this? I need more opinions.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 You need to provide more information first. Why is your ex your ex? Then I can give an answer... For my case, it was a way for my ex to web me in and string me along like a good cheater...why did you breakup?
Author AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 He broke up with me because he was always busy and he didn't think we were good for each other right now. Since then, thing's have been rocky between us and we finally ceased fire and apologized to each other(we were arguing threw emails). Were not together and right now just talking. I sent him a text threw facebook, seeing if he wanted to do a video call, it had been awhile and I thought he just didn't want to talk to me. To my surprise, like a day or so later, he replied. He said he didn't know how to call me on facebook and was sorry he didn't write to wish me a Merry Christmas, he had been sick. He said he had hoped I had a great Christmas. I said I hope he feels better and asked him if he had a wonderful Christmas, but he didn't say(this is also where we both apologized). He said he was glad I had a Merry Christmas.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 50/50. It could be something or nothing but friendly banter. Depends on how you go on with it.
Author AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 That's what I was afraid of. Seeing as your a guy, and if you ever did this to a previous girl and still liked her, how would you talk to her? Would you pretend to act normal or what? How should I go on with it to find out, without being suspicious?
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 That's what I was afraid of. Seeing as your a guy, and if you ever did this to a previous girl and still liked her, how would you talk to her? Would you pretend to act normal or what? How should I go on with it to find out, without being suspicious? I would probably be somewhat short at first, maybe start with a how are you? I'd be passive to make this post shorter...nervous. maybe like what he is.
Author AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Your saying this to your form of persective right? like what you would say to a girl? If your saying this the other way around, I could try that.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 OK say I did breakup with a girl, it was just over disagreement. Then say she sends me a text. My first reaction(since I love her would be as follows:) Girl: Hey... Me: ...hi...(being nervous here, thinking, hoping.) Girl: so...how was your Christmas/new year? Me: it was alright...coulda been better...what about yours? Girl: what do you mean 'coulda been better?' Girl: it was OK....mine coulda been better too... Me: well I missed you; missed having you around for the holidays.. ....Something like that. The dots would imply(for me) a sense of hope(maybe this could lead to us getting back together, and moving past these arguements.) And...a sense of worry and regret over what had passed. Not sure if that answers your questions or not...sorry.
JXR2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I'm in a similar situation. I know if I text my ex, she'll text me back, but I have no idea what it would mean, or where it would go from there. If I wanted to send a girl a text with meaning, I would take things slow, then give her a compliment and ask to talk to her or see her over coffee or something simple. But some people are different, so it's hard to say.
Author AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 That's the most frustrating part, that he's unpredictable and you don't know what really is going to happen.
JXR2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Tell me about it. I can call her right now, and I know she'll pick up, but I have no idea what will happen, so all I can do is leave her alone.
Author AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Last night, he replied to my email. It's been like forever. He said it's been like a week in a half since he checked them, I think it's been longer. Now I'm confused.
JXR2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Maybe he just saw the email. You should keep talking. Eventually, you'll know if he's just being friendly or if his responses mean something more. My ex has been trying to contact me. I know I'll have to reply sooner or later, but I'm not sure when.
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