Author Catplates Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 I think her issues are best explained by the book: Women Who Love Too Much. It is the same old: Looking to be needed, wanting to be loved, seeking external validation. I wish you and your fam the best. Please try to het her into IC and help her H get through this. The 16 year old kid will need IC. An affair is devastation at age 16. God Bless! She has already found a counsellor and had one session. I looked up addictive love on several different sites. The best explanation seemed to be an attempt to satsify developmental hunger for security, belonging and meaning. Much the same as what you said above Pierre. Thank you of your blessing... I am sure we will all be needing some blessings in the coming few months. Cat. 1
Author Catplates Posted January 11, 2013 Author Posted January 11, 2013 Here's little p.s. about my daughter's A and D day. I phoned her yesterday to check she is still half way sane. It made my head spin.... I felt as though I had been imagining the whole episode. They seem to be playing happy families again..She spoke for a couple of minutes then had to rush off and put her husband on the phone. He sounded like the steady man I have always known him to be. It has been a couple of the worst weeks in my life, but seems I worried too much, or have I? Perhaps there will be more repercussions. AAAAAARRRGGGH!!!! Cat
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