Ex girlfriend is still writing on my friends and family facebook?

[bodybuilderinnewyork]

It was a long distance relationship. She did not contact me for about a month because she said she was "busy with school". Tells me not to visit her because its a bad idea that shes so busy.

 

Officially she breaks up with me almost three weeks ago. I did not beg or plead, she kept saying she is not sure of what she wants, that its unfair to leave me waiting for her when she gets back and that she gives off to many mixed signals because she is unsure.

 

Then asks "how does that make you feel"? she isn't my therapist!! So her internet dies and we text, I simply say "thank you for telling me all these things I appreciate it" I proceed not to write anymore despite her efforts to see if I am still around or online. The next day she texts me if " are you okay"?. I still do not respond, then she changes her fb status to single and puts a picture of her holding some girl.(she also likes girls)

 

I got mad but whatever I cant change someone if they decide they are lesbian again.

On Christmas she wishes me a good one, I still do not respond. (she changes her pic again with some dude now)

Then a day before New Years she posts a comment on my best friends wall and proceeds to leave a comment on his wifes wall and then goes on my brothers wall to wish him a Happy Bday.(she hasnt spoken to them in almost a year)

 

You'd think she would get the hint.

On New Years she messages me and I cave in. We had a normal convo, I did not ask for her back or plead but she was very attentive etc. She has spoken to me more now that its over than when we were together!

 

This is the first time I never tried getting back with her, why would I anyway she told me not to see her, never answered my calls or texts for a month! I sent her a bday email, call, text, no response!

We had broken up 3 times due to similar issues. Trust me I have been here, faithful, anticipating to see her again. But I also know that I made the relationship to much about "her" "us" and never "me"

 

Of course Iam distraught and feel like I have forgotten my way. But I am taking care of that.

 

But what gives?

[KraftDinner]

Tell your friends/family to unfriend her. She won't do it herself, or stop.

[bodybuilderinnewyork]

I did, my best friend told his wife not to get involved also. They are practically the same person.

[Lost kitten]

She sounds confused, which is what she told you. It also seems like she misses you and your family/friends, and wants to stay in touch, or stay in their mind. It sounds, to me, like she's realizing what she gave up. I wouldn't be surprised if you hear from her, asking for another chance.