Mruiz926 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Hey I have been married for almost two years but I've known my husband for 7 years, we recently moved in together, going on one month now , and I have found out number pus things he has done in the last two years while he was in Japan. I also forgot to mention he is in the military. I have found numerous dating site emails, Craigslist posts and responses, I have also found out he was into "therapeutic massages". Too much for me to handle all at once and I honestly do not know what to do. This week I figured out that he went to topless Asian strip clubs a number of times and at this point I no longer trust that he can be faithful. I'm just angry and disgusted. Help!
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I'm just angry and disgusted. Help! Stop being angry and disgusted? Wow, I'm a genius. First, its not like he fell in love with anyone. He got his rocks off. Pretend your a guy and try and seperate sex and love: we can, and it sounds like he did. Second, you have 2 options, okay 3: 1. Divorce him because of it and get the source of your anger and disgust out of your life. 2. Get over it and on with your life with him. 3. Don't get over it but stay with him, letting this eat away at you and eventually ruin your relationship in a few years. Talk about specifics all you want: how he did this and that, how that makes you feel, how you never would...blah blah blah. It all boils down to one of those 3 options. If you choose the 3rd, please be sure to post back her with the troubles of your relationship--I really enjoy that kind of stuff.
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