macman92 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Me and my ex are talking again. When we talk there is a decent amount of flirting between us and the chemistry is definitely still there. She knows how I feel about her, yet I have no idea if she likes me or not (usually I can tell when a girl may like me) to take it to the next level with me. I've ran into her a couple of times and she flirts quite a bit with me. She'll blush a lot and gaze into my eyes more than what is deemed normal. She even tells me to call or text her, but I don't know if that is her being friendly or flirty. She does have trust issues and gets jealous very easily because of the guys that she has dated. Despite that she knows that I'm a nice guy who can challenge her. To my knowledge I may be the only ex that she has kept in contact with. The last time we broke up it was because she thought we were moving too fast to which I have to agree with her. I have a knack for moving too fast in relationships due to my own insecurities and I've come to realize that. Truth is I want her. I feel like she could be the one for me. The scary part is that I've never felt like this about any girl I've dated, not even my high school girl whom I've dated for a year. I want her, but I don't want to chase her away. Any suggestions? P.S. Even though its early I have asked her out Valentine's day to which she said yes!
othersideofthepillow Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 How long have you been broken up? How long did you date? Did you both see/date others after breaking up? There really isn't much info to go off of so the more the better for advice! Shouldn't have asked her out for a holiday that is over a month away either - that is def moving fast and hopefully she doesn't change her mind and cancel.
AshleyBT Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I think she still likes you. That's what I would have done, if I was in her shoes. If you two plan on going out again, you should get her to work out her jealousy first, that's important. I think you should heed her advice, and take it slow, way slow. Good luck with your date on Valentines Day!
Author macman92 Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 How long have you been broken up? How long did you date? Did you both see/date others after breaking up? There really isn't much info to go off of so the more the better for advice! Shouldn't have asked her out for a holiday that is over a month away either - that is def moving fast and hopefully she doesn't change her mind and cancel. We dated for 6 months before we broke up and didn't talk to each other for 4 months. We did see each other in October and got back together for a week before she decided that she didn't want to be in a relationship at the time. Now we are talking again. As for asking her out for the holidays, I think you may be right. That is what one gets for acting on emotion. @AshleyBt I hope that she still likes me. Time will only tell where this will go if it goes anywhere.
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