Chs Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Long story short: After ending my only long term relationship a year and some ago, i have only had a few casual flirts that ended very fast. I was fine with it, as some time just being myself was pretty good. But then i met this girl new years eve, and she really seems fantastic. We ended up sleeping together, and i have been texting her abit since then. But i've been here so many times the past year, and usually the thing i get going with these girls just start crumbling so fast. But i really want to see this girl again, and i don't know what to do so the spark won't just die out like it has so often.
truth_seeker Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 NYE hook up sounds like a one-time thing. I was out NYE and between the alcohol, and the fact that there were single girl's wanting to kiss and be with someone on NYE, it's a recipe for a meaningless fling. For you, try reaching out to her and ask her out on a date. If she accepts and you guys go out, great. If she balks and doesn't seem willing, then it was just a NYE fling for her.
GLDheart Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 If you can't keep the texting fun enough to move it to the next level... give up. Call it what it was... a fling... and move on. If you're a real man, step up your personality. Keep up her interst. Women can be fickle and on to the next more interesting guy over nothing but a few boring mudane texts. Bad texts: "How's work" "Doing anything fun?" "What's up?" All of those ask HER to say something interesting... That's your job chief. I'd give you the "good" examples but... I'm not sharing ;-)
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