frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 do i text the mother? do i bother? it would help me to know whether she receives my emails.
geegirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 do i text the mother? do i bother? it would help me to know whether she receives my emails. If she receives your emails and she wants to get back with you, you would have heard back from her. If she receives your emails but ignores it, you have your answer. If she has blocked you and that is why you are not getting a response, you have your answer. If she changed her number and never shared it with you, most likely she has blocked your email as well. 1
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 turns out the french guy she potentially could've slept with on holiday has spent new year with her. great.
geegirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 turns out the french guy she potentially could've slept with on holiday has spent new year with her. great. Time to grieve, heal and move on. 2
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 he brought a male mate with him too.....why bring a friend? doesn't make sense. just friends? if i was going to see a girl you had met, why take a mate?
geegirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 he brought a male mate with him too.....why bring a friend? doesn't make sense. just friends? if i was going to see a girl you had met, why take a mate? Quit this. Who knows why he did what he did? She could have had sex with him then spen New Years. She is living her life. You? Questioning motives from afar and coming up with excuses to continue your obsession. When does it end?
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Y'know Freddy, they have the most wonderful psychiatric hospitals these days. 2
KatZee Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Jesus Christ. I just read the entire thread of "I am going to her house tomorrow." I don't know how to make this anymore clear to you, but I'm going to try. 1. Your ex does not love you. She does not want to be with you. She is not sitting at home hoping she gets another text, email, phone call or smoke signal from you. 2. Your ex telling you she wanted to be single was A LIE. All exes say this. What they really mean is, "I don't want to be with YOU." 3. At 5 months post break up, you better believe she's out f.ucking other dudes. You better believe there are other bodies keeping her warm at night. You better believe she's on her knees sucking them all off with that sparkle in her eye. 4. The only reason you haven't received a call telling you to cut your s.hit is because YOU ARE BLOCKED ON ANY AND ALL AVENUES in which you try to contact her. A girl changing her number is not the action of a girl in love. It's a girl who is in fear of her safety and who wants nothing more to do with you. 5. You have crossed the line into stalker status a long time ago. You seem to be completely oblivious to her decision to end it with you and you are completely disrespectful to her at this point. She doesn't want to be with you. ACCEPT IT. 6. Realize that you two will NOT be getting back together in the summer. It's not going to happen. Ever. Period. It's done. You made sure of that the second you went into psycho stalker mode. The smartest thing your ex has done was cut you out completely and washed her hands of you. Do you HONESTLY think your ex would be stupid enough to get back into a relationship with you after seeing how you act? I'm sure she wants nothing more but to pretend the relationship you guys had never happened. All of what you're doing has turning your once good memories into HORRIBLE ONES. 7. I'm going to tell you right now that she's not getting your emails. There's no need to call her mother or her brother. I also guarantee you if you contact family members, charges WILL be pressed. If you're not thrown in jail you will be slapped with a restraining order. You don't need to be physically present to be hit with one of these. Contact her one more time after you're restrained and you will be thrown in jail. Believe me, with how much of a little bitch you act like on here, you will be EATEN ALIVE in a jail cell. Guaranteed. 8. Get professional help. You need serious counseling. You need to learn the meaning of the word BOUNDARIES 9. Lets say on the extremely slim off-chance she is reading your e-mails. SHE HAS A NEW MAN. What do you think these two are doing? They're reading them and laughing their a.sses off at you. 10. The guy is a French man. I can't even tell you how incredibly sexy, and intoxicating French men are. You stand no chance here. Your behavior, or his? This isn't a hard choice. KEEP IT MOVING, CUT THE CORD, AND ACCEPT WHAT THE REALITY OF THIS SITUATION IS. YOU'RE DONE. 2
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Women...the greatest motivation for any man; or the greatest destruction. Such a wicked power... No..do not talk to her or her mom in any form. Neither will care...and you will only double your agony.
KatZee Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 he brought a male mate with him too.....why bring a friend? doesn't make sense. just friends? if i was going to see a girl you had met, why take a mate? Because it was New Years? Because people have friends, and parties and get together's on New Years? Because she wants to make new friends? Because she may have had a single girlfriend to introduce? (by the way these are things YOU should have been doing on NYE) Believe me, he didn't bring a buddy because she carries a torch for you.
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 ok, well despite everything on here, being accused of this that, i know she will revisit this relationship. I'm in two minds about what to do with my life right now. I'm serious about this girl. I'm definitely going travelling at some point, and a fair few music festivals this year. I fall in love too hard. my head is fked from this.
spaniard Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 why are you interested if they are together or not? or if she slept with him or not? it's none of your business.
KatZee Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 i know she will revisit this relationship. No. Actually, she won't. You're projecting your own feelings onto her. You're thinking because she came back in the past she'll come back now. You've done far too much damage. Irreversible damage. You basically launched a nuclear bomb at whatever chance you MAY have had. No one in their right damn mind would ever be with someone like you. I can almost guarantee what she's telling her hot new French man. "THANK GOD I walked away from that. What a crazy psycho!!!" my head is fked from this. This is one of the most intelligent things you've said on any thread you've posted.
geegirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 ok, well despite everything on here, being accused of this that, i know she will revisit this relationship. I'm in two minds about what to do with my life right now. I'm serious about this girl. I'm definitely going travelling at some point, and a fair few music festivals this year. I fall in love too hard. my head is fked from this. I have to say Fred, she won't revisit. The behavior you have displayed is very unattractive and women don't gravitate to obsession. She's not looking at it as a declaration of undying love but as weak and pathetic grovelling. You project your feelings. She's got a hot French man showing her confidence, charisma and strength and who do you think she would gravitate towards? If there was any remote chance of you even getting her to pay any attention to you, you messed it all up by your obsessive behavior. 1
Renard99 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 i know she will revisit this relationship. Wow, now you can control free will. You truely are a special one! Tell me, what have you done since the break up that shows to her that you're worthy of another shot? So far you've proved that you're a pest, that you're needy, you're a stalker, that you're worthy of calling the police about and that you're number needs to be blocked. I know in your head these are all great things that prove your love and that she must come back to you at all costs, but, to the rest of the world it just shows you are ruining your chances with her on a daily basis. You're doing everything that everyone on here has ever done wrong and yet continue to claim that, despite this evidence to the contrary, it will work for you. I hope you're head's getting used to being sore because unless you change, you'll be beating it against a brick wall forever more.
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 I'm just utterly pissed off. ****ed from it. I was at a low point in my life when she broke it off, and I still am. If she can't be with me when I'm at my worst, she doesn't deserve me at my best. I have all this stuff here, I can't bear to chuck it away, nor can I keep it because i look at it and break down. What do I do with it?
geegirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 You stuff it all in a box and tuck it away somewhere or hand it to a friend to store since you're not emotionally strong to chuck or keep.
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Stop going to the gym and making music in your house all day and hang out with friends instead. You're only 25, but you're living like a hobbit. Be exposed to other girls - you will quickly develop feelings for others whether you like it or not, even if based on looks alone, although I hope to God you manage to fix all your issues. See a counselor AND a shrink. It is normal to be depressed, it is not normal to be incapacitated and delusional 5 months into a breakup. I know nothing anyone says will make a difference though, so my last advice is Just keep entertaining us.
Zammo25 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I'm just utterly pissed off. ****ed from it. I was at a low point in my life when she broke it off, and I still am. If she can't be with me when I'm at my worst, she doesn't deserve me at my best. I have all this stuff here, I can't bear to chuck it away, nor can I keep it because i look at it and break down. What do I do with it? Fred. Take a deep breath and repeat with me and this is my Mantra. " she does not want to be with me anymore " " she made no effort to stay with me and work through our issues " " she moved on quickly and is now f*cking another guy " " she does not give a rat's ar*e about me anymore " " she will never come back " " move on and prove she was wrong, for you, not her " 1
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 id rather dump it on her doorstep.
geegirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 id rather dump it on her doorstep. Again, with the obsessive behavior. Go and dump it at her doorstep. Stop asking when you know what you want to do. 1
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 Stop going to the gym and making music in your house all day and hang out with friends instead. You're only 25, but you're living like a hobbit. Be exposed to other girls - you will quickly develop feelings for others whether you like it or not, even if based on looks alone, although I hope to God you manage to fix all your issues. See a counselor AND a shrink. It is normal to be depressed, it is not normal to be incapacitated and delusional 5 months into a breakup. I know nothing anyone says will make a difference though, so my last advice is Just keep entertaining us. dont need a counsellor, nor a shrink. need to man up and move on from the b.itch. i'm a 1 relationship type of person. i don't go out there to pull endlessly. once ive gymmed hard for 3 months, i will book all my holidays and gtfo here.
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 once she comes down from the s.lut euphoria she is in, i will have moved on by that point and it will be too late.
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 and ill say this too. she never dealt with the breakup properly. just ran away with it, suppressed her emotions. she will have to confront them at some point, one way or the other.
Author frederickkk Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 and yeah i am emotionally weak
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