supermanthatho Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I dont know why but I had a quick browse on her fb because my friend was telling me she is saying bad things about me on there. I had a look and she is being so cold and nasty saying cruel things about me. This is uncalled for when I haven't even done anything for her to do this. The last things we spoke about was me asking if she's seeing anyone because I heard around she is. She said she isnt. This was 2 days ago and today she had on her fb saying My ex is annoying and calling me a joke and stuff and worse things i wont mention. Throughout the whole relationship and even after we broke up I've done nothing but care and love her. Im not joking. Ive never been cruel, never been nasty to her, I literately made her my everything and this is the thanks I get? When Im trying to have her back. But how can I be with someone who says these things and hurts me in front of everyone? Feels so hopeless to get the girl I knew back. The girl she is now is not her. Feels like she's someone else I'm so lost
mammasita Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I dated a guy who did the same to me. When I found out he was cheating, I dumped him - and he had the nerve to be nasty to me. He didn't say cruel things on facebook, but he took it a step further and emailed me. I didn't have the foresight back then to block his emails so I was subject to reading every last cruel word. I never responded though. He didn't deserve to know he hurt me/angered me with his words. Who cares what she's saying about you. YOU and your true friends will know the truth and see her for what she is. Don't let it get to you and don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that she struck a nerve.
Author supermanthatho Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 I dated a guy who did the same to me. When I found out he was cheating, I dumped him - and he had the nerve to be nasty to me. He didn't say cruel things on facebook, but he took it a step further and emailed me. I didn't have the foresight back then to block his emails so I was subject to reading every last cruel word. I never responded though. He didn't deserve to know he hurt me/angered me with his words. Who cares what she's saying about you. YOU and your true friends will know the truth and see her for what she is. Don't let it get to you and don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that she struck a nerve. I'm confused by it. Seriously I am lost as to why that happens (in general speaking) and lost to why she is doing it to me. After everything and all the running around she has put me through. I've even saved her life twice: -Once when she was in the shower she had an asthma attack and didn't have her inhaler so i picked her up and carried her as fast as I could to across the road where her friend lives (who also had asthma) to use her friend's inhaler. -The second time a taxi ran a red light as we were crossing, she didnt see the taxi, but i did and I literately tackled her backwards and the taxi just missed us. Yet I'm still not her "man" or "hero". No respect.
OJ loved Nicole Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Classic "nice guy" behavior. This is how you approach your relationship: "I will be a great bf to you, I'll do great stuff for you, and in return you must love me/never leave me". This is not the way the world works. If I'm not into someone, they can be the best gf ever, but I'll never love them. Just being a good bf won't make her love you/want to be with you. Now, recognize unhealthy behavior e.g. nasty comments on fb. Healthy men don't tolerate bad/unhealthy behavior. We don't chase/want to be with people that treat us this way. Like Mama said, "who cares"! She can't act anyway she wants, she's already disqualified herself from being considered as a potential gf, due to her actions. Move on, read/study about how to become a healthy man who doesn't tolerate bad behavior and fine tune your healthy gf picking skills. 1
othersideofthepillow Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 OJ love Nicole couldn't be more right! Seriously man...BE A MAN...who gives a ****! Let her continue acting like a CHILD. Move on and be true to yourself. You will find a woman that treats you how you deserve to be treated! 1
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