john4jane Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 (edited) im curious to have an opinion in regards to this because im confused as ever.so far ive been seperated from my wife for 11 months. in the begining of our seperation,there was no contact from us for the first six months outside of court.we slowly reconciled after six months started looking to buy a new house and even planned on renewing our vows etc.in thhe begining of it all there was false charges filed against me from my wife"her family"stating i was abusive to my wife and then 5 day old child. complete falsehood but nonetheless there was a restraining order out on me child support,we even went through child custody.we know have joint custody where my wife brings our child to me for 3-24hr days a week and i have visitations for two hours when our baby is with her mother.we were best friends and lovers all over again after such a dramatic period.our new problem is ever since we reconciled, (still living seperated) ive been helping her in turns of her doctors,epilepsy, financial, car problems.etc not to say she wasnt helping me because she did. i asked her to help me buy a car so i can transport our baby go to work etc.she bluntly said "no your on your own" i was devastated because of our reconciliation,us being in love with each other and looking to buy a house.i told her if your really my wife you would help your husband.also what makes you think i wanna do anything for you at all anymore when u cant even help me buy a car.btw i bought her a car 2 years ago.that led to a big argument and we havent spoken in a week or so. she said she needs time to think with her heart and not lash out in anger meanwhile im in limbo looking for a solution. im eager to move on if she is and not hold out thinking shes gonna come around or maybe i should wait.my problem is the principal the fact that im your hubby should in my opinion obligate you to help as it is for me to help her.thanks for reading your thoughts would be greatly appreciated Edited January 3, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted January 3, 2013 Share Posted January 3, 2013 i asked her to help me buy a car so i can transport our baby go to work etc.she bluntly said "no your on your own" i was devastated because of our reconciliation,us being in love with each other and looking to buy a house.i told her if your really my wife you would help your husband.also what makes you think i wanna do anything for you at all anymore when u cant even help me buy a car.btw J4J, punctuation and capital letters help people read your posts and will get you more responses . What would be her specific role in helping you with the car purchase? Co-signer? Down payment? Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
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