jrice94 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 As some of you know,i had an ugly spat this morning with my girlfriend over a 500 dollar necklace that i almost bought after she attempted to seduce me. She cried when we got home and locked herself in our room. It'd been 12 hours we got home about 9:30AM and i hadn't heard a sound from our room so i decided " I resolve end this" -> paraphrased Me: Can we talk Her: are you going to apologize for calling me spoiled and bratty? Me: I'm sorry i called you bratty i was in the heat of the moment. Me: " I miss the old you, i miss sitting and just talking. Her: i'm sorry i said i hated you and call you an ***hole i got in the heat of the moment Me: Thank you then we said we loved each other and she said she's looking for a job and after reflecting on the way she acted and that she'll change Is she playing me?
Lani Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Give her the benefit of the doubt on this one.. Everyone deserves a chance to change their ways. good luck 1
veggirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 wait and see, I guess. actions...wonder if she really will look for a job. locking herself in your room for TWELVE HOURS because you didn't buy her a necklace? dude.... I'm sorry but does your girlfriend also require diaper changings and "open up for the airplane!" while she is being spoonfed? ps--people's entire personalities don't just change in 12 hours. nothing is going to be different is my guess.
Author jrice94 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 she didn't change she said that she will change, as in future tense, she isn't changed she said she will change
Eddie Edirol Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 ps--people's entire personalities don't just change in 12 hours. nothing is going to be different is my guess. Im thinkng the same thing. If you left her alone for 12 hours, she had a long time to think that you could dump her for this behavior. So giving her time to herself maybe worked, but if she is that bratty, I think it will happen again, by habit. So see if it will happen again, and at that point, you need to put your foot down and put her in her place. 1
veggirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 she didn't change she said that she will change, as in future tense, she isn't changed she said she will change well you know what you need to do now is figure out YOUR boundaries. How many chances does she get? What are you willing to put up with? Can you figure that out and then stick to it? I wonder what her plan is to change? Like does she actually see what she did as wrong? does she honestly think her behavior is wrong?
Author jrice94 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 "then we said we loved each other and she said she's looking for a job and after reflecting on the way she acted and that she'll change" . She apologized so she knows she was wrong and she says she will change so she honestly believes it. My boundaries are she gets one more chance and after that fight i can't imagine she can do any worse from here on out so i doubt i will have a whole lot of major future fights to put up with.
veggirl Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 "then we said we loved each other and she said she's looking for a job and after reflecting on the way she acted and that she'll change" . She apologized so she knows she was wrong and she says she will change so she honestly believes it. My boundaries are she gets one more chance and after that fight i can't imagine she can do any worse from here on out so i doubt i will have a whole lot of major future fights to put up with. yeah I know but the reason I said "actions" is because saying you are looking for a job and saying you will change is a lot different from actually DOING it. I guess you'll find out soon enough though if she is serious about changing. I'm guessing the 94 in your name might be your birth year? If so shouldn't be too hard for a young girl to find a job at the mall etc.
Maneater Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 highly manipulative. I suppose you 'could see' how she acts in another couple weeks. but this girl has you wrapped around her finger. is she nice to be around besides her demands? does she put down or gossip about other women?
Author jrice94 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 no gossipping no put downs and yeah she's awesome to be around besides an episode like that
Author jrice94 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 you are correct about 94 and yeah probably the mall
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