phineas Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Because 9 times out of 10 there is someone else. We aren't stupid. My experience with women also. Really? I must be a rare person though as I wouldn't dream of starting a relationship before ending the current one I was in You don't have to start a relationship but you can certainly have someone else in mind. I personally have dumped women for being disrespectful / dishonest & remained single without a back-up. I know a lot of guys this way. I also know a lot of guys who just date women for sex until the new piece comes along & then their gone.
goldengirl11 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I also know a lot of guys who just date women for sex until the new piece comes along & then their gone. Not interested in a relationship you mean?
ShannonMI Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Break up with them and THEN find the other person...don't find the other person first (if exclusivity has been discussed and agreed upon) Ahh if only it worked that way. It rarely does.
Author Casablanca Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 You don't have to start a relationship but you can certainly have someone else in mind. Just about everyone I broke up with, I did have someone in mind who I was interested in, but I had not talked to them about it, I didn't know if I would get with them (and in every case I did not get with any of them other than a date or two), but the problem was with the relationship I was having and I settled that business before I started my new ventures One does not always find people only when they are looking. Sometimes you just run into someone. One does not owe fidelity to someone they have been on a few good dates with. I'm not talking a few dates, I'm talking about relationships that have lasted over a year, someone you're in love with. If you meet someone that is able to pull you away from the person you are with, there were already problems with the relationship and should have already been ended. Ahh if only it worked that way. It rarely does. It does for me, but I guess I'm the exception
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