mscupcake Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 hi everyone i woke up this morning feeling empty..why cant i move on..why cant i feel better...this morning all i wanted to do was call him, its been 2 mths since we last spoke..we ended badly but i just want to hear his voice again..i know it probably is not the best thing for me but i miss him so much..i dont even know what i would say, i dont even know what i want him out of talking to him, is it just my emotions or is this a logical thing to do..would i feel better or would it make me feel worst than before.. i know he doesnt probably care about me or love me the same way i do for him and now he has a new gf which hurts like hell..and i do is picture them together..and wonder does he even think about me at all..does he still care.. confused...would calling help me at all?
fixing Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Calling will not help you honey. i dont know how you both ended, but he has a GF now. Seriously, dont ring him, why make him feel even better about himself by having his 'ex gf' ringing him whilst he has a current relationship too. You deserve better, and you will find better, but for now, just stick to no contact. I know its hard, but, I PROMISE, if you call him, YOU WILL FEEL AWFUL. So post here instead x
headsashed Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Calling will not help you honey. i dont know how you both ended, but he has a GF now. Seriously, dont ring him, why make him feel even better about himself by having his 'ex gf' ringing him whilst he has a current relationship too. You deserve better, and you will find better, but for now, just stick to no contact. I know its hard, but, I PROMISE, if you call him, YOU WILL FEEL AWFUL. So post here instead x Exactly that
Own Worst Enemy Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 you are slowly weaning yourself off it. if you call him, one of two things will happen: either he will be very nice to you, and when you hang up, you will miss him more. OR he won't be nice/won't take the call. either way, you'll feel far far worse. i feel so bad for you, i know how awful it is. just keep remembering you have done amazingly well to get this far, and it will get better.
Samilia Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 hi everyone i woke up this morning feeling empty..why cant i move on..why cant i feel better...this morning all i wanted to do was call him, its been 2 mths since we last spoke..we ended badly but i just want to hear his voice again..i know it probably is not the best thing for me but i miss him so much..i dont even know what i would say, i dont even know what i want him out of talking to him, is it just my emotions or is this a logical thing to do..would i feel better or would it make me feel worst than before.. i know he doesnt probably care about me or love me the same way i do for him and now he has a new gf which hurts like hell..and i do is picture them together..and wonder does he even think about me at all..does he still care.. confused...would calling help me at all? Don't call. You will feel even worse once you hang up. It's not going to do you any good and you know that.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I just woke up and I'm exact same the urge is soooo strong!!!! But I know even if I call he won't pick up. And even if he does. What do u want him to say? Cause most likely he won't say what u want to hear it's so hard to not call when all u want is to just hear their voice
InBloom Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 (edited) with respect, Move On! You've heard that before i'm sure, but it's the ONLY answer to the situation. Seriously. He's clearly moved on with a new girl, you need to move on...not necessarily to another guy or relationship but to a much better head space, without thoughts of 'what could have been'. If you move on, you will feel better...put your time and energy into something else and feel better. Heal yourself even more. You will prevail because not only will you be in a better place once you finally get over this, you may be into something 1000 times better than this past relationship and will look back and smile. I wish I had had someone tell me this a while ago when I went through the same thing in my College years. Instead, i went in for more hurt and was crushed even more. After more hurt and wallowing over it, I finally moved on and started getting on with other things and wouldn't you know it, She (my ex I was agonizing over) started coming around. I had already met someone new and a lot more suited to me and had a lot more better things going on, so It didn't even bother me. Move on! Set yourself Free Edited January 2, 2013 by InBloom
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