ayudameplease Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 When we first broke up I sent her off from my car. I ended up calling her a week and a half later trying to work things out. She just wanted to be friends under the impression that we would grow from there. Ended up hanging out and i walked away from her at the end of the night, pissing her off and telling me that was the last straw. We had a few heated emails and i told her that it was for the best that we part since i was going to have to move anyways for a job which she didn't know about 100%. She contacts me a couple months later about a friend that died. He was an aquaintace to me but big friend to her. She wanted me to accompany her at the funeral and wake. We ended up giong to dinner the night after the wake. I sensed there was still something there but i left it alone. At this point I was going through job interviews for jobs that would be out of state and i didn't want to put her through that pain. We never brought up our relationship or who we were dating that night but i knew from a friend that she was seeing somebody. However she never brought it up. When i moved 2,000 miles away to cali she was contacting me. "What are you doing there?" and of course texts me on my last 2 birthdays. All her pics are still tagged on my facebook and vice versa. She just texted me wishing me a happy birthday again. I'm tempted on telling her that i'll be visiting my family soon coming up and would like to meet up for drinks to catch up. What do you guys think?
SharkTooth Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I've been thru a couple of similar break ups like you. They both broke up with me and causal meetings here and there through out the years made them realize I was a pretty good catch. I actually dated both of them a few years later at different times for a couple months having fun at first and then the excitement was gone. I broke up with both of them. Funny how the tides had turned but I broke up with them because I was mature enough to know it was not going any further. I guess what I'm trying to say is what the hell? Go for it. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Life is to short. Try not to have any regrets. Of course confidence and believing in yourself is the key to success in everything in life. If you hold those two elements, you are pretty much bullet proof...
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 What do you guys think? I think you want some sex when you are in town. Nothing wrong with that, just be honest with her that its probably not going to be anything more.
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