SharkTooth Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Thanks for reading... My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago and I moved in to a smaller place because my house is rented. The break up was very peaceful and drama free. She wanted to remain friends and we have. For one, I'm pretty mellow and easy going, two, I guess I'm not that smart and three, she has lots of my furniture and personal effects that I really would just like to move once. I don't have the means to store and move everything before my house becomes vacant. She said she absolutely doesn't mind me storing my stuff in her garage. My concern is, I have gone NC for a couple of days now and want to continue NC. I'm not sure if the NC will piss her off. She hits me with texts almost everyday and I have acted like all is great with me and no worries. She just gave me a custom necklace for Christmas! Besides getting all my stuff out of her place, do you have any suggestions to try and keep the peace while maintaining NC? And yes, I do still have super strong feelings for her.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Get your stuff out from under her control. There's too many ways this will end badly--you hook up with a chick your ex doesn't like, the new chick you hook up with doesn't like your stuff at your ex's, your ex hooks up with a dude you don't like, the new dude your ex hooks up with doesn't like your stuff at your ex's. This is a problem waiting to happen. When it does, please post back in detail--that's why I come here.
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