Shim_kattty Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I am just so hurt. I feel trapped inside my own body. I gave him every bit of me & I know he made some sacrifices for me too, but I just can't come to terms with this break up even though it was in July. It just doesn't make any sense. I am so hurt. I am crying & I can only cry at night because if I did while everyone was awake, they'd judge me. I'm so hurt. I could never express to him how hurt I really am. Part of me wants him to hurt just as bad but knowing me, I'd still be there for him to bind up his wounds. I just need comfort. I'm losing it.
Sav Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I hope you will find solace in knowing that you are not alone. My breakup was quite way back too, prolly around the same time as you but I can tell you I'm still hurting. Not as bad as when it first happened but I still think of her. By the way, cry whenever you feel like it. Do not bottle it up. They will not judge you, trust me. Everyone has gone through (more or less) heartbreaks before. They know how it feels, we know how it feels. Let it all out. You will feel better. Hope you find yourself soon
Jingle14 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I was dumped not last year but the year before and I'm STILL moping (somewhat justifiably, I did break up my marriage for this man so one would expect he'd have stuck by me, having made such a huge sacrifice for him). As I'm reading this, the radio is on in the background and James Taylor's 'You've Got a Friend' is on. The words 'they'll take your soul if you let them, so don't you let them' has just pierced my mind, they're so poignant and so very true. I guess I need to hold onto those words and try to reclaim my soul from this person who doesn't even know - or care - that he took it. Maybe you need to too. Never thought I would be still on this forum so long after, but here I am. There's no timescale on dealing with loss - almost as bad as a bereavement - so be understanding with yourself. You will get there. So will I.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Sweetheart... You will one day get over this, you all will. You will see how much better off you are. You will see you are worthy of a long-term, true-love, relationship. A relationship inwhich care is extended beyond anything you know. Where love is free. You won't hurt no-more. A pretty girl like you shouldn't need shed your wonderful tears like this. You are amazing, start seeing that. You deserve a thousand hugs. It sure would be nice, if you pretty-lady could smile for us...and tell yourself you are ready to heal: for yourself. Hugs*
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