livelife Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Write a list of things you hate about your ex. I made a private post on Tumblr and have 18 things I think of things I hate about my ex. It's quite funny. I might post it here. Infact, let's all post it here! Get our frustrations out.
Jingle14 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I hate: you lie as easily as breathingyou're cowardly, weak and pathetic - by your own admissionyou can switch your feelings on/off in a cold, selfish and calculated manneryou only ever use one brand of soap, toothpaste, shampoo - in fact, you are so set in your ways, you never try anything different, even though you think you are spontaneous (you're so not, I am though), you only buy clothes from 2 shops!you think the only way is your way and anyone else - me in particular -suggesting an alternative is 'controlling' yourather than communicate with me, you wrote nasty little notes about me. I accidentally found one on your iPad and once I found that, I constantantly looked - and found - more. I hate myself for being weak and not dumping you when I found the first one!that I broke up my marriage - my son's family, and by God I've paid the price with him since - for you but you didn't have the balls to stick with me through the inevitable fall out, to see beyond and to see the bigger picture of when things were settled. Instead you found it easier to walk away and off with someone else more 'calm and settled'. You bastard! For that, I will never, ever forgive you and I hope your conscience is never clear for intefering in my marriage when you knew I had feelings for you - you never needed to tell me that you felt the same, to fool me into thinking we had a future together. Selfish piece of ****!
Jingle14 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I hate: you lie as easily as breathingyou're cowardly, weak and pathetic - by your own admissionyou can switch your feelings on/off in a cold, selfish and calculated manneryou only ever use one brand of soap, toothpaste, shampoo - in fact, you are so set in your ways, you never try anything different, even though you think you are spontaneous (you're so not, I am though), you only buy clothes from 2 shops!you think the only way is your way and anyone else - me in particular -suggesting an alternative is 'controlling' yourather than communicate with me, you wrote nasty little notes about me. I accidentally found one on your iPad and once I found that, I constantantly looked - and found - more. I hate myself for being weak and not dumping you when I found the first one!that I broke up my marriage - my son's family, and by God I've paid the price with him since - for you but you didn't have the balls to stick with me through the inevitable fall out, to see beyond and to see the bigger picture of when things were settled. Instead you found it easier to walk away and off with someone else more 'calm and settled'. You bastard! For that, I will never, ever forgive you and I hope your conscience is never clear for intefering in my marriage when you knew I had feelings for you - you never needed to tell me that you felt the same, to fool me into thinking we had a future together. Selfish piece of ****! Forgot to mention... I also hate your stupid, mid-life crisis Porsche - with its tragic personal plate, I mean really..?!! - and your ridiculous RED Converse!! Grow the **** up, you are nearly 44!! 3
user6667 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 1. you used me 2. you used me 3. you used me 4. you promised me so much, but in the end you took it all away 5. i gave you so much, you gave me so little. i don't know why i kept on doing that. i loved you more than i loved myself. and still it wasnt enough? 6. you are an evil bitch and i want to smash your brain in for making me feel like this. but when i see you, if i ever see you again.. i'll probably sob and will want to hug you but you won't want to. i'll be a sad little shell of my sad little self. yeah thanks for making me feel like this. 7. you life, i am certain, will be less nice without me supporting you, helping you, loving you, hugging you and telling you everything is fine. i am upset with you for not wanting me to give you that.
ScienceGal Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 1. I hate that you couldn't establish personal boundaries and because of it trust was eroded faster than it could be built and our relationship is now ruined because of it. That's it. Kind of sad I don't have anything else.
Jingle14 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Forgot to mention... I also hate your stupid, mid-life crisis Porsche - with its tragic personal plate, I mean really..?!! - and your ridiculous RED Converse!! Grow the **** up, you are nearly 44!! And how are the roller blades you bought working out, or are they still in the box gathering dust?! What a prick!!
Sugarkane Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Only 18 things? Lol I wrote much more after the breakup. Well you know they paint us black too.
quite.foolish Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 That you don't love me anymore. Yea, this.
Njeanne Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 1) I hate that you never told me you were falling out of love. 2) Leading me on for two months, lying and faking that I was your world 3) Breaking up over IM, using excuse that you could not call on skype 4) Breaking my heart, making me fall more in love with you 5) Making me ruin newyears eve because you were supposed to be there All in all you were perfect for me, except how you handled the break up. A guy that was never moody, angry, aggressive, never lied... If you told me you were falling out of love, we could worked through it, or we could have gone mutual break up and been friends, because I rather that then loosing you and never seeing your smile or hearing your voice again.
Renard99 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 (edited) I hate: Your lack of communication, especially when it related to your gradual loss of feelings for me.Your lazinessYour inability to think of anybody else, especially if effort was involvedYour inability to manage money which meant that I ended up in personal debt in order to shore up the joint accountsyour copy and paste choice of clothing - especially the way you found a shirt you liked and then went out and bought it in all the colours availableThe way that, should you get bored with something I was saying you would make it obvious - to the extent that you'd pick up a magazine and start reading or turn the tv on - all whilst I paid full attention to all the sh*t you talked to me about because I cared!The way that, when with me, you worried that you were fat and covered up even when we were alone, despite the fact I thought you were beautiful and told you so, yet as soon as someone else looked even remotely in your direction.... out came the long legs and the DD'sThe way you lied to me about many things - down to stupid little things, like the fact that you claimed to not to like football when we first met which made me 'jokingly' make you adopt the team I support, even bought you a scarf and paid to take you to games...... yet all along you supported the local team passionately enough to buy a season ticket after we split.The fact that you didn't have a drivers licence which meant I gave you lifts everywhere and meant I couldn't drink when we went out to parties.The fact that I carried around a picture of you, yet you carried around pictures of singers/guitarists that you had a crush on.That I had to not only initiate sex but also had to put in all the effort whilst you just laid there every single bloody time I could go on but don't want to take up too much space in this thread! Edited January 8, 2013 by Renard99
Zammo25 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 1. I hate the fact now I know Mr Wonderful was waiting in the wings for me to screw it up and you must have known this 2. I hate the fact the last time I saw you there was a bocquet of flowers in the room, obviously from him and you were uncomfortable with me being there 3. I hate the fact when we had problems, you did not communicate anything to me and made no effort what so ever to trying and save the relationship, obvious to me now, you had a plan b 4. I hate the fact we discussed things once and you told me a guy at work had asked you out, stupid me thought it was years ago, I can see now it was Mr Wonderful during the time we were together 5. I hate the way I spilled my guts and got nothing back, you knew I loved you and wanted to stay with you but walked away 6. I hate the way when you had become " official " with Mr Wonderful you told me to never contact you again which I got via a text from a mutual friend
bittermelon Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 1. I hate that I fell in love with a version of you that never really existed. 2. I hate that you lied to me from the very beginning of our relationship, beginning with your age and the number of kids that you had. That should have been a red flag already, but I figured I'd give you a chance. 3. I hate that when you were in pain, you allowed me to take care of you, but as soon as you got better, you were gone. 4. I hate that you never ever made me feel appreciated and took me for granted more and more as the years went by. 5. I hate that you can't even calculate how much to tip at a restaurant. It's simple math! 6. I hate that you go to bed without showering at night and you stink when you hold me. 7. I hate that you dress like an old man trying to dress young. 8. I hate that you put everyone else's needs ahead of mine. 9. I hate that you used to lie so openly to me. Don't you know I already knew the truth? 10. I hate that I have to go to the gym now to try to keep myself busy and gain back my self-esteem. Hopefully this is a kick-start to a fabulous new me and by the time you realize what you've lost, I'll be too awesome to take you back.
Debbie2508 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 1. I hate that you said you'd help me with my lack of self confidence,then left me,without discussion,leaving me with no self esteem whatsoever. 2. I hate that you're so impulsive,making huge,life changing decisions on practically the spur of the moment. 3. I hate that you asked me to marry you in October,then left in January....9 weeks later! 4. I hate that you'd polish off a whole bottle of red wine a night,but deny you had a problem. 5. I hate the way you insisted we call oneanother darling/honey/sweetheart etc....especially the way you held me in bed,the night before you left me,saying"get some rest,sweetheart". You knew you'd be leaving me in a few hours....what sort of coward does that?! 6. I really,really hate the way I sat through the whole box set of bloody Star Wars with you, the weekend before you left..... if that's not love,wtf is??!! 7. Most of all i hate the way I still love you,miss you and wish you were still here. How sad is that?! 1
jags2bowl27 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 1) I hate that you never told me you were falling out of love. 2) Leading me on for two months, lying and faking that I was your world 3) Breaking up over IM, using excuse that you could not call on skype 4) Breaking my heart, making me fall more in love with you 5) Making me ruin newyears eve because you were supposed to be there All in all you were perfect for me, except how you handled the break up. A guy that was never moody, angry, aggressive, never lied... If you told me you were falling out of love, we could worked through it, or we could have gone mutual break up and been friends, because I rather that then loosing you and never seeing your smile or hearing your voice again. ditto, This pertains to me to the tee
theLWord Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 -your lies and lack of remorse for lying -your use of organic deodorant -not showering everyday -flirting with everyone you met -your manipulation -making me feel like shyt by telling me your daughter misses me -your parenting in general, being daughters friend -blaming me for your problems -how terrible you are with money -thinking you are always innocent -being a vegan -thinking you are better than people -you being secretive with your phone -your terrible communication skills -your lack of effort -wanting me to fix you -how you pretended you couldn't do anything so someone would do it for you -how much you drank -how much you took me for granted -how you still lie and say you've changed lol -how you think everyone is out to get you -your psychosis and BPD diagnosis -I hate that you are fake and I feel for your trap -you lying to your therapist -your attractiveness -I hate the time you took from me most of all. And.the distrust I feel that will make it difficult for future relationships I think I can go on for a long time. This feels better.
ScienceGal Posted February 11, 2013 Posted February 11, 2013 update: I hate that you lack character and integrity.
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