What does it mean when they say they will cherish your memories?

[FailedFirstLove]

I was planning to trade back everything to make moving on easier so I asked him to send my stuff back and ill do the same. He goes his keeping everything and cherishing those memories not wasting them. What does that mean?

[FailedFirstLove]

Befre I told him **** like I have to move on and delete the memories to not hurt so mch. He even asked if I wanted to talk just as friends.

[crashvector]

I was planning to trade back everything to make moving on easier so I asked him to send my stuff back and ill do the same. He goes his keeping everything and cherishing those memories not wasting them. What does that mean?

 

My ex fiance keeps telling me that, too...but says she will cherish the memories.

 

She still wants to return my stuff.

 

I think it means that they are just trying to be "nice".

[big bear]

Nothing..

 

The last time I spoke to my ex (over a month ago), I told her I had come to know she was dating someone else and blah blah blah...

 

Her response only sobbing. Kept on crying, did not admit, did not deny.. And has left me in denial..

 

The fact is only actions matter, words are worthless..

 

If they so cherish your memories, why not make a fresh start and create new ones ,even better ones.

 

Words are so cheap..

[crashvector]

Nothing..

 

The last time I spoke to my ex (over a month ago), I told her I had come to know she was dating someone else and blah blah blah...

 

Her response only sobbing. Kept on crying, did not admit, did not deny.. And has left me in denial..

 

The fact is only actions matter, words are worthless..

 

If they so cherish your memories, why not make a fresh start and create new ones ,even better ones.

 

Words are so cheap..

 

This this..and SO MUCH THIS.

 

words are cheap. If someone cherishes your memories, they wouldnt be so willing to give up the opportunity to make more memories to cherish with you.

 

I've ALWAYS said that I pay very little attention to what people SAY...I give my attention to what they DO...because THAT is the only truth that matters.

[FailedFirstLove]

damn I thought I had abit of hope. But hey I need to give up on trying to find it and let it go

[MyAngel]

So true. Actions speak so much louder.

[suladas]

It doesn't mean they are lying, and no it shouldn't give you any hope because that's not what it means. It means they enjoyed their time with you, it was a time of their life they will not forget. They want to remember the good times, even though there won't be anymore with you. I don't see the problem with that, no false promises or anything. I'm sure in the months or years if it was a good relationship you can look back at the time spent with them and remember it in a good way

[fancy feast]

Get your stuff back. **** that noise.

[FailedFirstLove]

It doesn't mean they are lying, and no it shouldn't give you any hope because that's not what it means. It means they enjoyed their time with you, it was a time of their life they will not forget. They want to remember the good times, even though there won't be anymore with you. I don't see the problem with that, no false promises or anything. I'm sure in the months or years if it was a good relationship you can look back at the time spent with them and remember it in a good way

 

Does that mean they have fully healed and its nt painful for them anymore.... cause I think te only way I can move on is to try forget it. Otherwise I'm stuck in this mess. Thinking about him all the time!!! How can he be okay with jut being friends and still talking but holding onto memories

[crashvector]

Does that mean they have fully healed and its nt painful for them anymore.... cause I think te only way I can move on is to try forget it. Otherwise I'm stuck in this mess. Thinking about him all the time!!! How can he be okay with jut being friends and still talking but holding onto memories

 

My ex told me that just two days ago...so either they dont have to be fully healed, or she's full of shiat. lol

 

In either case...who cares....I still have a job to do to heal myself. Whether or not she's over it has nothing to do with if I am or not.

 

Same for you.

[FailedFirstLove]

My ex told me that just two days ago...so either they dont have to be fully healed, or she's full of shiat. lol

 

In either case...who cares....I still have a job to do to heal myself. Whether or not she's over it has nothing to do with if I am or not.

 

Same for you.

 

=( its just im on holidays now,,, and im so bored. so i spend my whole free time thinking about it...