Simon Phoenix Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I don't think there's a time limit on any of this stuff. Sure, there are windows where contact/regret/reflection are more common, but I think there are a lot of factors that make it impossible to accurately give time limits.
KatZee Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I don't know... I never had an ex come back ever.. though this was the most serious relationship I had 3 yrs.. 1st time I met a girls family.. heck 1st time she introduced a guy to anyone. She was THAT sure of being with me that out of a few other guys in her past.. I was the ONLY one she introduced, took on to a vacation etc.. So I was totally shocked when she BU.. it made no sense. I really doubt she will come back for me. Though I have to say she got dumped before by her ex and he came back running for her while she was with me. But she loved me a lot and would tell him to move on. I think he might have gotten married now though I don't know if he has stopped contacting her. I just know my ex has a HUGE ego.. a REALLY HUGE one. So I can never imagine her ever coming back or checking up on me. Maybe... maybe if she's moved on and wants to see if I'm doing better off without her... maybe. But for the most part I think she's going to try to distance her self to move on. Now that I am at her school too.. don't know what happens if she runs into me. I kinda hope her old feelings run again, so she can feel the pain I used to feel. But I don't think she will come back for me ever. I treated her well for the most part and I was a nice guy. I never cheated or disrespected anyone till after our BU and that only out of anger. If I have a major regret... it is that I never met her closest friends. I think then I would've had someone to talk to my ex. In our case we had no mutual friends.. so no one could help us. And her siblings didn't really give a damn either. Guess they put on a show to care for me when they met me. I didn't say all exes come back. I said exes come back all the time at all points in life. Doesn't mean everyone's ex will. I broke up with one of my boyfriends and I never have contacted him again. I doubt I'll ever hear from my most recent ex either. All depends on the situation.
LostOne1 Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 I didn't say all exes come back. I said exes come back all the time at all points in life. Doesn't mean everyone's ex will. I broke up with one of my boyfriends and I never have contacted him again. I doubt I'll ever hear from my most recent ex either. All depends on the situation. Well I wish I would have one ex come back after me lol.. So far out of all my ex's not even one has come back. I think my current ex might have come back if I had let it be. I didn't and it pushed her away further and further to a point of no return.
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