OCCDAVE Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Well last week I was talking to a lady from a site then we exchanged numbers Thursday .Convo went well or so I thought and she said we'll call me later .I got off the ph on a high note we joked and convo wasn't to long .Well Saturday comes we are texting after I made first contact and she mentioned going out but wasnt sure if she was going .well I get a text Sunday afternoon saying this Sorry about that had dinner and it took longer then normal I figured all was still well after all no need to say sorry to me I'm not her bf.well convo then seemed to die and it was now Monday afternoon no word .I sent a happy new year text and seemed to get a generic reply .i then said maybe now I can get that call I'm waiting on :)she replied Yes you def will get it Well no one from her today so why the 180?
SJC2008 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 (edited) When it's OLD do you even have to ask:)? Edited January 2, 2013 by SJC2008 edit
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Not to sure I understand ?Guess I'm just confused on how to tell if a girl is busy compared just lost interest tbh
Necris Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Not to sure I understand ?Guess I'm just confused on how to tell if a girl is busy compared just lost interest tbh I understand your confusion, same thing happened to me recently, I went out on a date to see a movie with a girl, she seemed to enjoy it, thanked me for the date, but after the date I tried to message her but she never did return my messages until 9 days later when I called to tell her Merry Christmas. At first I thought she might be busy but after thinking about it I realized how if she truly were interested in me she'd at least try to return my messages or call me. So sorry she might just be uninterested. 1
mortensorchid Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 It's not a good sign if you get at least a day in between sending/receiving a text message between parties. She's not interested enough in you to respond further. Move on. 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Well I agree it's not a good sign I just figure contact didn't have to be made every day then again it's already Wednesday afternoon no word ?ugh Tbh kinda surprised considering this is an older lady I figured she be done with the games or at least tell me it's been nice talking but i don't see this heading anywhere .
clia Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 I sent a happy new year text and seemed to get a generic reply .i then said maybe now I can get that call I'm waiting on :)she replied Yes you def will get it Well no one from her today so why the 180? I'm confused about why you are waiting for her to call you when clearly you have her phone number. Why don't you call her on the phone and ask her out? 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 I called her Saturday and just now no answer .Lets see how the rest of the day plays out but I don't think I should keep calling till I get an answer.Now she's got a missed called if she handles it like Saturday then case closed :-/
DC4 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 In my personal experience, that means she is not interested. That's what men have done to me that weren't interested. That's how I act with men when I'm not interested. Texting takes like 15 seconds. A call to set a date takes 3 minutes. It sucks, but I'd let this one go 2
Author OCCDAVE Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Well I know we can't mind read but why can't girls or this case a grown women just be honest? maybe I'm considered odd but I'd rather a women tell me F off then make it seem we are clicking then bam Mia eh
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