Gingerxr2 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Why do people under estimate the simple power of love ? Love is an emotion that can give such power and destruction in people's lives and yet can be taken for granted on a daily basis , as humans we are given this amazing gift to love another in the hope that another will love us back , to complete us to make us whole . But what is love ? What is complete ? Through out our life's we come across many different types of love , when we are born we love are mum, it's almost like its hard wired into are DNA , we love the sound of her voice , the hugs we receive when we bump are knee . We love our friends and family , it's not the same sort of love , not so intense but it's still love , we love them enough to let them into our lives and be part of many things . Then becomes the intimate love between you and a partner , this is a more intense type of love something that we have no control over , we tryst another person to have the same type of love , to feel part of a person that gives love back no matter how informed of what love really is , is it a memory of something,? is it ideas and dreams , passions of what we really want and just call it love ? Is love just a hope ? Love cm can travel deeply into a persons soul . Love can have the power to develop someone within a simple heart beat , a simple glance of a love one , a simple smile , the smell of the perfume can reawaken any memory of love , Intense love can be destructive quite as easily . When love goes wrong it change the way people look at love and what the word love can really mean , there are many ways that this can go wrong , highlighting one , Partner ship love . As a human I believe when a breakup happens it's left to the other partner to determin what happens to us , sometimes we can be left feeling broken or even hopelessly destroyed , how we can swap between two types of love in a heartbeat ? from feeling intense love , to destructive love . Love is hard to understand , yet something we all go through . We have to choose to embrace it of run from it ,?? This is just my thoughts .
todreaminblue Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Why do people under estimate the simple power of love ? Love is an emotion that can give such power and destruction in people's lives and yet can be taken for granted on a daily basis , as humans we are given this amazing gift to love another in the hope that another will love us back , to complete us to make us whole . But what is love ? What is complete ? Through out our life's we come across many different types of love , when we are born we love are mum, it's almost like its hard wired into are DNA , we love the sound of her voice , the hugs we receive when we bump are knee . We love our friends and family , it's not the same sort of love , not so intense but it's still love , we love them enough to let them into our lives and be part of many things . Then becomes the intimate love between you and a partner , this is a more intense type of love something that we have no control over , we tryst another person to have the same type of love , to feel part of a person that gives love back no matter how informed of what love really is , is it a memory of something,? is it ideas and dreams , passions of what we really want and just call it love ? Is love just a hope ? Love cm can travel deeply into a persons soul . Love can have the power to develop someone within a simple heart beat , a simple glance of a love one , a simple smile , the smell of the perfume can reawaken any memory of love , Intense love can be destructive quite as easily . When love goes wrong it change the way people look at love and what the word love can really mean , there are many ways that this can go wrong , highlighting one , Partner ship love . As a human I believe when a breakup happens it's left to the other partner to determin what happens to us , sometimes we can be left feeling broken or even hopelessly destroyed , how we can swap between two types of love in a heartbeat ? from feeling intense love , to destructive love . Love is hard to understand , yet something we all go through . We have to choose to embrace it of run from it ,?? This is just my thoughts . i believe in love whole heartedly...love however.....does not believe in me....its kicked my ass....but im still standing...deb
Author Gingerxr2 Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 My question back to you, Why does it seem that only big time directors in Hollywood believe in true love anymore? No one believes that love is worth fighting for, that love is worth getting your heart broken for, that love is worth picking yourself back up after rejection and trying harder for, whether it be with someone completely different or that same person who just rejected you. I think love is the most amazing feeling in the world and it discourages me when people are so pessimistic after a bad experience. I go through my stages of grief and resentment, but love is the factor that drives my life, and one day it will be reciprocated. Channing Tatum never gives up on love. Not one of his movies has ended with him heartbroken, bitter, and settling for an easier target. Movies are based on real life substance. They're not complete made-for-entertainment bs. I wish everyone could just understand that and keep their heads up or fight for what they want. I might be hurt right now, but I am a Channing Tatum. I'm not giving up until my love is accepted and returned. I totally understand what your saying , I'm not saying that I don't believe in love far from it !, what I'm saying is how strong and emotion it is and how it empowers us in different ways . Believe me I'm hurting right now ! And I find it hard sine days to even concentrate on the simplest things , but I know one day that I will find who I am ment to be with . I believe that if it is true love then you should flight for it , but that only works one way , if the other person takes a n/c rule how can you fight for it ?
Author Gingerxr2 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 He's a luckily bloke , I still love my ex , but she on the other hand has excluded me from her life ! Changed everything , mobile , email , blocked me on Facebook , so I can't get in contact , the ball Is in her court , maybe when she's sorted herself out maybe she might contact me , but I know her and I know it won't happen x
sweetkiwi Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 Love is what you put into it. For me it is all about the other person. I love them for everything they are. The flaws too. For me personally everytime I've loved someone it has been different. With the first and last being the most intense. And its only been truly mutual the first time. That was the love that showed me the most about myself. That though you can love someone so much you'll never make them feel comfortable and impervious within the relationship. That must be a two way street. And with the last love, I learned that you cannot love enough for two. There must be mutually evident love and understanding. This was seriously lacking. And leaving him was probably the hardest and most mature move I have ever made in my dating life. I love. But above all I love and respect myself. And at 25 I know I cannot accept anything less than a man who will listen and be my partner.
Recommended Posts