Sarah89 Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 I think I posted my other thread in the wrong place to be honest, I just need a shoulder right now, and some really helpful advice. I've gone and told this guy that I like him, and only just found out he thinks of himself as a player. He knows he's got me now, what do I do?! I feel so stupid, I'm going to meet him tomorrow. He told me he liked me too, but what? What do I say, how do I react? We'll call him Q. I do want him though. He's been telling me things like "I don't want you speaking to other guys, I want you" and "I haven't got with anyone else since you" and "I don't know why you like me, I'm a dick" and "I remember the first time I ever met you, I liked you ever since" etc. He told my friend that he still has feelings for her, but one of Q's boy friends told me that Q only likes me and Q really likes me. Also Q was drunk at told my friend "I enjoy being a bit like a player".
sweetkiwi Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Oh man he's telling you he's a player. What further proof do you need.
Author Sarah89 Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Oh man he's telling you he's a player. What further proof do you need. He didn't tell me directly, I heard from a friend.
sweetkiwi Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 He didn't tell me directly, I heard from a friend. Well it's up to you. But its obvious youre in the cycle of making excuses. I have heard all those lines before. From players. Dont fall for ittttt
Author Sarah89 Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Well it's up to you. But its obvious youre in the cycle of making excuses. I have heard all those lines before. From players. Dont fall for ittttt Okay, thanks for the advice
Misslovely Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Best you leave this guy alone before you go and do something stupid like fall in love with him. Players will always be players. My bf said he would'nt and that he changed but he was cheating all alone. But the choice is all yours
Author Sarah89 Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 Best you leave this guy alone before you go and do something stupid like fall in love with him. Players will always be players. My bf said he would'nt and that he changed but he was cheating all alone. But the choice is all yours He wants to see me, though? I don't think I'd fall in love that quick tbh, but he called himself a player? Doesn't sound right, just sounds like he was being cocky and trying to make girls jealous (including me).
sweetkiwi Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 He wants to see me, though? I don't think I'd fall in love that quick tbh, but he called himself a player? Doesn't sound right, just sounds like he was being cocky and trying to make girls jealous (including me). And what is good about a cocky guy who is trying to inspire jealousy in your heart???? 1
Misslovely Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 Well if you're really keen on this guy than i don't see why you should'nt give him the benefit of the doubt. Just be careful you don't get too attached
Author Sarah89 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 Well if you're really keen on this guy than i don't see why you should'nt give him the benefit of the doubt. Just be careful you don't get too attached Thank you! I'll try not to.
flopply hat Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Plenty of others who are not players. Why waste your time?
Author Sarah89 Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Listen it's obvious what you want to do so go do it. Stop trying to get people to validate you on here and go ride him like a pony, just don't come here and whine about how you were played after the fact. I'm not asking for people to validate me on here, don't you know what this site is used for? I need guidance, thanks though.
118unknown Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 If he's a player, "play hard to get" it will force him to chase you. This is one of those situations where if he loves you enough he will change. If he doesn't he will just carry on being a player and you're left hurt... I definitely vote give it a go! If you end up getting hurt you can look back when you're older and say to yourself at least I gave it a try rather than regret not trying. Or at least you felt something than not anything at all. Love hurts but its worth knowing what it feels like. Also, if it does go well! remain optimistic! he could be potential partner, fiancé or even husband! think of the potential gain and the loss.
Author Sarah89 Posted January 5, 2013 Author Posted January 5, 2013 If he's a player, "play hard to get" it will force him to chase you. This is one of those situations where if he loves you enough he will change. If he doesn't he will just carry on being a player and you're left hurt... I definitely vote give it a go! If you end up getting hurt you can look back when you're older and say to yourself at least I gave it a try rather than regret not trying. Or at least you felt something than not anything at all. Love hurts but its worth knowing what it feels like. Also, if it does go well! remain optimistic! he could be potential partner, fiancé or even husband! think of the potential gain and the loss. Thank you so much for this. To be honest this is what I needed to hear the most, I guess. I've been telling myself today that I should take things with a pinch of salt when it comes to him. The potential gain is worth more than the loss I think, I'll just tread carefully.
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