Mary Shadows Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Last week my ex contacted me after two years? Do other people do this? Why would someone creep back around after two years?
Author Mary Shadows Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 He said that he just called to see how I was doing cause he "found my number in his old phone." I know there are motives behind this. This has never happened to me.
Missing Him Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 I've heard from most people that at some point, the exes do eventually turn back up in your life somehow. After two years though I would not want to reopen those wounds
Author Mary Shadows Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 He as well, sent me a NYE text, saying that I was an awesome girl. Reappearing after two years is strange.
eyeful Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 I once contacted my ex (two year relationship) while in a new relationship. My then-current girlfriend of about 8 months was out of town for the summer, and we were seeing each other just every other weekend or so. I missed her very much when we were apart, but took that time to process my growing feelings for her, and also felt sort of curious about how my ex was doing. It had been about a year and a half since my ex and I had broken up, and we ended on somewhat poor terms. I contacted the ex via text, and was honestly motivated by wondering how she was, like if she was still with the guy she rebounded on after me, and I found that yes, she was, and that I had no romantic feelings for her, nor any serious resentment. This was because she really paled in comparison to my current girlfriend at the time, who I was really preoccupied and in love with (looking forward so much to seeing her every couple weeks). So, it's not necessarily a romantic invitation to be contacted by an ex, it could just be to be diplomatic or something after a painful break. I never did talk to her again (that was about 4.5 years ago). About 9 months later, I was contacted by my first and only internet-girlfriend from way back (about 6 years prior). I was just getting ready to move out of state to go to grad school with my then-current girlfriend (who is now breaking up with me). That first "GF" was, I think, between relationships, and invited me to come meet her in her home state (the opposite end of the country to where I was headed). She just wanted to meet me, though, since we had only ever interacted online and over the phone. Maybe she thought it could go somewhere, since we had kept lightly in touch for a while, and still seemed to have some mild interest for one another. I declined, of course, since I had made long-term plans already, and wasn't too excited by her idea.
Author Mary Shadows Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 Yes, well perhaps he did just wanted to say hi and was curious; but I called him yesterday and haven't heard back from him. Now that I reached out to him, he hasn't gotten back to me. Makes no sense.
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