Marek Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 How do you go about this? I'm not great-looking so the pool of available women is tightly constricted. I tried online dating but that didn't work out too well. I have "hooked up" with two good-looking girls in the past but they were only one-night stands. They woke in the morning and probably thought Oh my God! What have I done! I'm not after a model-looking girl; an average-looking girl with decent morals is all I ask for.
Author Marek Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 Typically average-looking females are the most in demand. So you may think that hot looking girl is out of your league but odds are she is dying to be asked out by a normal decent guy. The average-girl has many offerings by all types. I've heard this before but I don't believe it. I think it's something average-looking dudes have made up to convince themselves that they can get hotties. Most couples I see around town are of equal attractiveness. Sure, there's the odd skinny emo-looking guy with a babe on his arm but that's a rarity. 4
Author Marek Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 Where do you live? Florida..................
IT Geek Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 I've basically accepted that fact that no sane woman could be physically attracted to me. Life is easier after coming to grips with that.
Mycteria Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 People usually end up in relationships with partners of equal attractiveness. Your dating pool is plenty big enough, you just need to pursue women in your "league" of attractiveness. There is someone for everyone. That's why I don't buy the BS guys on here spout about how hard it is to find someone when you're fat/short/bald/poor or whatever other excuse these pathetic excuses for men come up with. Either they aren't trying, or they are pursuing people way out of their league.
Fondue Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 People usually end up in relationships with partners of equal attractiveness. Your dating pool is plenty big enough, you just need to pursue women in your "league" of attractiveness. There is someone for everyone. That's why I don't buy the BS guys on here spout about how hard it is to find someone when you're fat/short/bald/poor or whatever other excuse these pathetic excuses for men come up with. Either they aren't trying, or they are pursuing people way out of their league. Ironically, people say "never settle!" just as often. Hahhaa. 2
xxoo Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Ironically, people say "never settle!" just as often. Hahhaa. Never settle for less than genuine feelings and attraction. There is no reason two average looking people can't fall in love. It happens all the time. 3
IT Geek Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 People usually end up in relationships with partners of equal attractiveness. Your dating pool is plenty big enough, you just need to pursue women in your "league" of attractiveness. There is someone for everyone. That's why I don't buy the BS guys on here spout about how hard it is to find someone when you're fat/short/bald/poor or whatever other excuse these pathetic excuses for men come up with. Either they aren't trying, or they are pursuing people way out of their league. If the issue with a guy is something that he can change, and is changing, does this still apply? I've lost over 100 lbs and have improved my lifestyle and health dramatically in the past 18 months. In the long run, should I be content in dating someone who is out of shape and who's lifestyle is not compatible with my own? I've come too far to get into a relationship with someone who's lifestyle could cause be to fall back into my old ways of a sedentary lifestyle and fast food three times a day.
AD1980 Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 People usually end up in relationships with partners of equal attractiveness. Your dating pool is plenty big enough, you just need to pursue women in your "league" of attractiveness. There is someone for everyone. That's why I don't buy the BS guys on here spout about how hard it is to find someone when you're fat/short/bald/poor or whatever other excuse these pathetic excuses for men come up with. Either they aren't trying, or they are pursuing people way out of their league. How do u know your "league"?
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