Adastep Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Hello, I've been on 3 dates with this girl and each date has went really well. The last date we had our first kiss and told each other that we like seeing each other. Since that date over a week ago, things seem like they've regressed a little bit. I contact her most of the time and she contacts me a little bit. We still talk but not in the detail that we did before. I brought up going out again and said she can pick the night, due to her evenings being busier than mine but nothing's been set up yet. Should I stay patient with this or ask her if this is not going anywhere? I just need some advice, I really like this girl and want this to work out.
Angel Heart Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Welcome to LS Adastep; hope you find this site useful. Please consider giving her some space; she knows you want to see her again. Don't seem needy and desperate by contacting her. If she wants to see you she will contact you; if not, it just wasn't meant to be. Sometimes a gal just needs to miss you and remember what a great time you two had together. Give it time. Happy New Year!
tulips Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Do not even consider asking her about where THIS thing is going. NO. This would be putting responsibility on her Just kindly remind her to pick the evening 1
Author Adastep Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 That's what I'm going to do... Ill continue to talk to her but the next dates on her. She knows my feelings. It's just confusing since the 3rd date went so well. I'm sure it'll work out, just got to stay patient. Thanks!
Casablanca Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 That's what I'm going to do... Ill continue to talk to her but the next dates on her. She knows my feelings. It's just confusing since the 3rd date went so well. I'm sure it'll work out, just got to stay patient. Thanks! This IMO is the scary stage of dating where after a few dates, you want it to continue, the other person has had a few dates to evaluate you and well you are not quite sure what their evaluation of you is. Be patient, that is all you can do 1
Author Adastep Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Kind of toned it down with the texting and talking... didn't talk for 24 hours. She texted me yesterday at work and a date was set up that night. Dinner, drinks, met my parents. And a make out sess in my truck haha. So patience was the key. Thanks
Casablanca Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Kind of toned it down with the texting and talking... didn't talk for 24 hours. She texted me yesterday at work and a date was set up that night. Dinner, drinks, met my parents. And a make out sess in my truck haha. So patience was the key. Thanks Glad it worked out!
DC4 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Kind of toned it down with the texting and talking... didn't talk for 24 hours. She texted me yesterday at work and a date was set up that night. Dinner, drinks, met my parents. And a make out sess in my truck haha. So patience was the key. Thanks Good! Oh to be young again. I've been dating someone for 6 months and he has only met two of my friends. My dad will keel over before we get to the "meet the parents" stage.
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