Big dan Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 So I met this girl and we became best of friends we talked everyday, no stop And then after a year we decided to take a step more and become more than friends, so we started dating and we loved each other very much. There was one problem we didn't really see each other in the 8 months we went out so one day we decided we should be apart for the only reason being we never seen each. I still loved her she still loved me. Then a couple times she would tell me she was totally over it. So went to a club one night and said to myself move on. So I kissed a couple of girls bla bla bla. So the next day I get this text saying why have you kised all these girls you've hurt me. I was so happy in a was because she still cared for me and so I still kept in regular contact with her. Then one day she said I never want to speak to you again ever. So I said to myself what have I done wrong why? How?. So 2weeks later I see her at my friends birthday party in the city so the night went on blah blah And out of no where she comes up and hugs me and tells me she misses me and we've to give it time! So I text her a couple of times After that saying hi and she replayed to all my text, but she would never text me first never. so couple of weeks go bye and I see her at this bar and she came up to me straight away started talking and she kissed me again. Then I seen her at this party on Christmas Eve and we talked again but she was looking for my attention dancing in front of me looking to see if I was looking and stuff. Then she started crying she was upset about something she never told anyone so I hugged her and talked to her but she said she was fed up of everything in general. So today I'm wondering does she love me? why won't she call first? How do I get her to trust me again? Do I ask her to meet up? But she's very shy someone help what do I do?
beyond Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 So I met this girl and we became best of friends we talked everyday, no stop And then after a year we decided to take a step more and become more than friends, so we started dating and we loved each other very much. There was one problem we didn't really see each other in the 8 months we went out so one day we decided we should be apart for the only reason being we never seen each. I still loved her she still loved me. Then a couple times she would tell me she was totally over it. So went to a club one night and said to myself move on. So I kissed a couple of girls bla bla bla. So the next day I get this text saying why have you kised all these girls you've hurt me. I was so happy in a was because she still cared for me and so I still kept in regular contact with her. Then one day she said I never want to speak to you again ever. So I said to myself what have I done wrong why? How?. So 2weeks later I see her at my friends birthday party in the city so the night went on blah blah And out of no where she comes up and hugs me and tells me she misses me and we've to give it time! So I text her a couple of times After that saying hi and she replayed to all my text, but she would never text me first never. so couple of weeks go bye and I see her at this bar and she came up to me straight away started talking and she kissed me again. Then I seen her at this party on Christmas Eve and we talked again but she was looking for my attention dancing in front of me looking to see if I was looking and stuff. Then she started crying she was upset about something she never told anyone so I hugged her and talked to her but she said she was fed up of everything in general. So today I'm wondering does she love me? why won't she call first? How do I get her to trust me again? Do I ask her to meet up? But she's very shy someone help what do I do? Dan, I don't quite get this. You say you broke up because you both loved each other but didn't see each other much? Why was this? I'm assuming you don't live thousands of miles from each other as you seem to bump into her a lot since your break up. If the only reason really was that you didn't see each other enough, why didn't you try and resolve that? Move closer/make more time for each other etc? Just questioning if that really was the only reason. To answer your questions - yes I think she still has feelings for you. She doesn't call you first because YOU broke up with HER! As for getting her to trust you again, I don't know! You broke up with her and then went out and kissed other girls, so she thinks you are over her. You could ask her to meet up and tell her you made a huge mistake etc, but please make sure you really want to be with her before you say it and risk hurting her again. Also, if the reason to break up in the first place was that you didn't see each other enough then how do you propose to change that?
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