tulips Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 (edited) Hi, I am a woman in early fifties, looking early forties, married. While on an assignment in my previous hometown in Europe, a charming young player approached me. I almost giggled - only I knew my age. He is 40. Of course he was after sex. I have player traits myself and I entered the game, against my own advice not to play with fire. Alas, feelings I had least expected, started budding and we had sex on week 3. After the first sex scene he withdrew sex; he sat me down and told that me being married bothers him, he is not suitable for long - distance relationship and and wants to live with someone. He asked me to think everything over. 3 days later he updated this to friendship offer, friends only, not friends with benefits. I would love to! After 3 weeks of being friendly and playing games at the same time,we ended up having sex again - his initiative - followed by his renewal of friendship offer. He withdrew himself from the situation completely for 3 weeks to reappear in the mode of our early days - us talking on the phone every 4 hours. It was mentioned among other chit chat - no, I do not plan on staying in this country and. He did not call, when promised and I responded by traveling to another country and letting him know of it. Actually, I played traveling (fake travel) . He called me - over the border - presumably - I did not answer, answered his friendly message in friendly manner. What is the name of his game now? This friendship offer - real or fake? Can I take it and run with it, regardless? His presence in the world accentuates my joie de vivre and I would like to have him in my life, from over the ocean, no pressure, Edited January 1, 2013 by tulips make a title more to the point
Yamaha Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Im assuming, by your post, you and H have an open marriage? Does H have the same liberties as you when your away? As for your OM it sounds like the classic push/pull of PUA artistry. He pulls you in then pushes you away to keep you guessing and questioning. I'm sure when he wants sex again you will know his intentions.
Author tulips Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 Me and my husband have gone to family counseling for 2 years to very little result. Before myleaving for Europe it was discussed with my lawyer that I really need to live separately from my husband to start divorce proceedings
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