abm Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 I have been in a relationship with a boy since last 9 years.I was in love with him 12 years back when I was 14 years old. Now I am 25. We have had a great relationship in these 9 years. We know each other very well and do know about each and every positive and negative points of ours. He is near about 8 years elder than me.He was residing in a room at my home on rent.After 5 years of our relation, he went to another place, but after that, we had continued to the same points of affection towards each other. We both never had with any other partner before. Three months ago, he told me that he can not continue relation with me as he has to marry with an another girl of his family's choice.She is holding a good position than me in aspect of job. He told me that he will always remember me, but can not continue with me. Earlier, we always had a relation like Husband Wife together and from one year ago he always used to tell me that we will marry now. But everything has changed.Now I am in the city in which he is living. Earlier I we were not in the same town. Then also, today, I havn't tried to call him from 2 months. I love him so much and can never forget him.Also, I have decided that I will not marry to any other person ever.I want him to be happy always. But I am so much depressed. Even after these 2 months, I can not forget him for a second.I try to forget him but its not possible for me. What should I do? How do I concentrate on my career?
tulips Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Allow herself to love him Do not ask any feedback One day you will notice that pain is gone and love is gone also
MyAngel Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 He had to leave you for an arranged marriage? Oh wow that's awful. I'm sorry you are going through this. I don't have any advice but I just hope you can move through this. It would be devastating
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