SayonaraItsuka Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 So there's this girl I've known a few years. We haven't actually met up with each other more than twice, but she does reveal a lot about herself on her blogs, and I seem to have fallen for her twice already. Last time, a different girl became my girlfriend and for a year and a half, so we didn't talk. Since my break-up, I've texted her a few times, and although her responses are long, our exchanges don't actually last long. Although I'd like to win her heart, she already has a boyfriend and no matter how much I want her, I feel like I cannot do what the guy who took my girlfriend from me a few months ago. I know how it feels, and I don't want somebody feeling the same way as I am right now. She's so perfect for me, but I don't want to interfere in her relationship, so what should I do?
ls32ssibm Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 Be the "friend". If, and only if, their relationship sours, be the shoulder to cry on for awhile. But don't be the rebound either, so play it smart.
Author SayonaraItsuka Posted January 1, 2013 Author Posted January 1, 2013 I'm sure I won't be the first person she'll think of if and only if she breaks up with him. And there's no way I'm gonna be the rebound. I'll just of course be her friend, and if anything happens, then yippee! lol
Axee Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 You have met her twice and you are in love via A BLOG.. And you say she is ...wait for it.. PERFECT for you.. Wake up Buddy.. Thats what you think.. reality might be different..
2.50 a gallon Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 After the break up of my marriage I went back to my old ways of being a player, womanizer. I found lots of women willing to sleep with me, but being determined to never fall in love again, none that I ever introduced to my family. I was so determined to never get involved again that when I felt myself falling for a woman I would run. The last time, it had been a multi-millionaires daughter scared me so bad that I for safety I moved back to my home town a thousand miles away. Six months later I was doing just fine with the local ladies, when one night I met this gal who totally rung my bell. This was only the second time that I had met somebody I could kiss good morning for the rest of my life. I knew from the start that being that good looking in all likely hood she had a permant BF and I was right. She was divorced and was now very much in love and living with the guy of her dreams, her favorite movie star was Steven Segal, she liked tuffs guys. And her live in BF was a semi-pro light heavy weight boxer, who just so happened looked like SS, right down to the long pony tail. My best bet was to back off and become her friend and wait for him to make a mistake. Over two years go by and the relationshop finally had a blip, when the BF got into drugs after retiring from the ring. They temporarily separated while he took off to another state to clean up his act. She on the other hand was not going to sit around waiting for his return. She had never dated much, married at age 17, then once divorced had two kids to raise, which meant she had to work two and sometimes 3 jobs to pay the bills. Luckily, I was the first guy she called, about 30 days after her moved out. So I was her rebound relationship. That was over 17 years ago, so it can work.
mortensorchid Posted January 1, 2013 Posted January 1, 2013 That's ridiculous. I'm sure once you have put this into words that you know how foolish this sounds. You have seen the woman twice in the flesh but you love her from her blog? You're living in a fantasy world.
Author SayonaraItsuka Posted January 2, 2013 Author Posted January 2, 2013 More like hung out twice and that was before she had a boyfriend. We are technically friends. Just don't want to cause drama. I want to hang out with her more, but how do I ask her to just hang out without looking like I'm trying to steal her away?
Axee Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 More like hung out twice and that was before she had a boyfriend. We are technically friends. Just don't want to cause drama. I want to hang out with her more, but how do I ask her to just hang out without looking like I'm trying to steal her away? Drop this here.. You ARE trying to steal her .. and how will you feel if someone does like that to your girlfriend and your girlfriend eventually breaks up because of him.. Do the right thing and walk away, both heart and mind from this girl. If things should happen then they will happen now or later
Author SayonaraItsuka Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 You're right, although I did not intend to start something, I would have. I will just remain friends with her and if anything does happen, it happens.
CptSaveAho Posted January 3, 2013 Posted January 3, 2013 You're right, although I did not intend to start something, I would have. I will just remain friends with her and if anything does happen, it happens. Terrible advice on remaining friends... Disappear off the face of the earth, focus on your own life... Friends = easy access rebounds... If she likes you as much as you like her, she will let you know when she is available
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