bonespockirk Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 (edited) im writing this to give advice to those hearts who decided to do no contact to heal but always wondered what if they came back.... well he came back about 3 weeks ago or so after 3 months of no contact from me after he broke up with me... facebooked me something about 'hey i know you probably thought you would never hear from me again' type bul****. i was really happy at the time but i let him know that i started dating someone new so that he doesnt feel like an idiot not ot make him jealous. i really wanted to see what he wanted, i knew that eventually his actions would show me... we talked brifely over facebook a few times and txted each other. he said he regreted what happened...but never apologized for hurting me or leaving. he made no effort to try to talk to me in person or even on the phone or express that he wants to be with me. he never told me that he loved me or that i am the girl he wants to be with... i could tell he was not serious about me yet again, he just came back because he wanted someone i guess. Then he found out that i was dating a guy who was my friend throughout our relationship and he probably assumed i did this to make him jealous or something. It started messing with my heart and head talking with him because yet again i found myself in that horrible place of wanting him to love me and want me. Thats how i felt throughout our whole relationship... I asked to meet up with him in person because i wanted something to happen, i wanted him to ****n look at me and be a man for a second in his life and state his thoughts and feelings weather good or bad so that i can move on with my life. We were txting the other night back and forth and he was out drinking iwht his friends and said he would meet up with me later on... i got so mad at that because once again i felt like a second priority to him, and this time i was mad because im here risking everything with my new boyfriend for the looser that abandoned me not so long ago... I told him something along those lines of being second important as usual and he turned on me completely. started texting me really horrible and mean and personal things, even called me a slut and said things like 'i never loved you, im soooo happy without you, remember the reasons i left you, goodbye!' Once again trying to make me remember of all the hurt i felt last time he broke up with me... Letting me know how much he doesnt care about me anymore... My new boyfriend saw some of the things he said to me and told me that I never have to deal with him again. if he ever tries to contact me that he will deal with him from now on because he is a loser and i dont deserve this. He txted him something too along the lines to leave me alone and thats that. I never want to hear from him again. he is definitely not someone that loved me. He deserves to be with someone who doesnt love him back and karma will get him. So basically, im sharing this story to let you all know that if your ex left and abandoned you while you wanted them and loved them, don't ever let them be welcome in your life again. They left you because they lacked respect and love for you, and if the breakup was not too harsh and mean and you were left feeling like you still want them, miss them and love them, remember that they left because of lack of love and respect for you. If you ever knew what they really thought about you in their heads, stuff that most people wouldnt say out loud because they dont want to hurt someone... you would loose all respect for them too. I now realize not only was my ex a looser, he will always remain one too because he is a very ****ty person who just leaches off others and won't ever do anything with his life. Turns out i never really loved him either although both of us had feelings involved to some degree. Edited December 31, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs 2
Game Posted January 2, 2013 Posted January 2, 2013 No offense, but 3 months ain't sh.it. The same problems are clearly going to be there. People don't change in 3 months...come to think of it, people rarely change after they hit a certain age.
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