Afraid to show interest

[youaremysunshine]

B. and i have been casual friends since highschool. I heard from friends that he liked me then, but i had a boyfriend. Two years ago, i drunkenly hooked up with b. less than two days after he was dumped by his girlfriend. Obviously, he wasn't in a good place emotionally, although he said I made him feel good. His ex ended up making a public scene and threatening to kill us both.Nothing more ever came out of the hook-up. I moved to the city about an hour away. After losing many of my belongings in a fire, my old friends held a fundraiser for me in my home town and he shows up unexpectedly. We hit it off great and talk all night. I say I am happy being single, and he says he in unhappy being alone. I am skeptical of this cause I know he sleeps around. We end up at a couple of friends place and drink more. We have so pretty intense sex. Like he throws me on the bed rips my tights off. So gooood. Even he says so. We cuddle and have sex again in the morning. We hang out with our friends all day and it's like old times. Things only get a little sour when I mention I'm now friends with his ex. He is still bitter about the way that realationship ended. Now he texts me occasionally to make chit chat about his work stress, his car (he is a mechanic and loves his car) or about how he never gets out of our old town. He never used to text me so this is a change. I'm going to be home again this week, walking my uncles dog who lives in his neighbourhood, should I ask him to come with? I think I could accept it if he didn't want a realationship with me, what with me living out of town. But I'm afraid if I ask him to hang the spell of that night will be broken and he will lose interest in me.

[youaremysunshine]

I guess it's that I suspect he responds to hard to get routine, but I really just want to see him and talk openly.

[youaremysunshine]

I just mentioned to him via text I'll be around, hoping he would ask to see me. no response.