guywithapillowfriend Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 My gf dumped me right before xmas and reason was she wanted to work on her self and focus on school and stay single for a while. Back story She send me txt saying "I can bring your hoodie on Tuesday the 8th Ill be at campus around 1 so I can get my books as well." I gave her a hoodie while ago as a gift. When we broke up i told her you should not trow it away but just give it back. I been NC with her for like 5 days, and i have not respond her yet. I do want her back, but i`m not going to beg. So what should i do? please help!
na49 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I'm afraid it doesn't matter whether you want her back or not. She doesn't want you back. If you want your hoodie, get it back. Don't leave it as an excuse to stay in contact with her though.
Author guywithapillowfriend Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 I'm afraid it doesn't matter whether you want her back or not. She doesn't want you back. If you want your hoodie, get it back. Don't leave it as an excuse to stay in contact with her though. Yeh, ill just ignore her. Hoodie is just a hoodie. Iill not respond to her and she can do w/e she wants. she dumped and i got no time to beg or play games with her.. I still miss her, but i think i can manage. 1
Svet74 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 honestly i wouldnt even respond. let it be. let her realize what she lost
Author guywithapillowfriend Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 honestly i wouldnt even respond. let it be. let her realize what she lost The thing is one of other things she said i was too clingy, and i thought about it was true(i`m not lying to my self) and she never been in a good relation ship. I was thinking TC till the 8th and when i see her ill just tell her how i feel. If she tell me no, well ill just move on.. Because i dont have to to beg her back and i gave her every thing she wished and all i got is dumped.
na49 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 If she thinks you were too clingy then show her you don't need her! No begging, no nothing. Let her live life without you. No more responding to her texts either. She will eventually take offense to the fact that you haven't bothered her and reach out to you lol. 2
iBerry Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Two options: 1. Dont respond 2. Respond with two words "keep it." She may be using the hoodie as an excuse to text you to see where you're at...being that you havent contacted her for several days. If you maintain no contact, Im pretty sure you'll hear from her again at some point. She may not want you back but she will be irritated that you are ignoring her thats for sure. And maybe she will question whether she did the right thing by letting you go.
Author guywithapillowfriend Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 This, say no more. It's literally the best advice you could possibly receive at such an early stage of the break up. You start no contact, if she wants you back you'll know about it, and then you can act on it, until then... she doesn't want you, so you keep swimming in NC ocean... Until you reach dry land... Preferably in spain... In a nice luxury villa under the sun... With a godess-like spanish girl... ok I'll stop there:D HAHA LOL, yeh ill just ignore her, i have not talk to her in like 6 days or so, and its not hard so far. I change my FB pic and few girls liked and she got mad about because she started posting quote things that had to do things with me, and she did the same when i didn't respond to hers msges about hoodie. So far i`m going strong.
Author guywithapillowfriend Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 Yeah well steady on, because in the very, very, VERY near future, you're going to lie down before trying to sleep and you're heart is going to be jumping out of your mouth as you lie with your face in your pillow asking yourself question after question and question, half writing letters, screwing it up and writing another... writing a facebook message and clicking logout before you send it, stalking her twitter, hovering over the dial button on her number, thinking about her getting boned by other guys... You got it all to come man and it's going to SUCK, stay strong keep posting. Nah we didn't date for too long, i dated her for 3 months, I felt kind of like that 1st few days, now i`m doing all right i keep my self busy and have fun. She is been trying to talk to me but i ignored her. . I still miss her but i`m not going to beg her. And if she wont snap out of her 14 year old girl mind stop saying she is independent and strong women she wont get any were. I still got my doors open but she will have to approach me other wise ill just move on and mby talk to her months later as a friend or not will see.
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