Great first date...now awkward

[nina90]

Hey, so I started txtn this fella I met from online dating website for few weeks. We were meant to meet up one day but I had to cancel as wasn't feeling so good but we got over that and we finally met up the week after. We met up, the cafe's were all busy, so we just got coffee to take out and went for a long walk around the town chatting. then an hour later walked out, we were like now what? we took a while and then ended up going bowling, so we went collected his car and drove to bowling and played few games, then played few games of pool, and sat and talked for a bit more. Then it was now what?, so we both said we were hungry, so got in car drove around trying think of what to eat, so we decided on pizza and went back to mine to watch a horror film we had been talking bout horror films so were in the mood. so we went back to mine, i live in uni accommodation so had to go in my room sit on bed watch films, we watched 2 films then started talking having a chat. Then we started kissing, (he was really good kisser just had to say lol) well kissing got heated up we ended up lying on bed his hands touching me. but then i had to stop cuz didnt want to come across as slut sleeping with him on first date. he was ok, we just lied there, and i tried asking him what he was thinking but he wasnt saying anything. they he sat up put shoes on getting ready to go, so we stood up and just looked at each other and started kissing each other again, i couldnt stop it this time so we ended up having sex. and afterward got dressed just sat there for bit and he was like so much for that not happening. then he got ready and said he really should go this time, so i saw him out and we had a good night kiss. that was few days ago. he has been busy at work lately but hes always been working while we txt but i feel as if his txts are cold, bit awkward and i dont know what to do. has he lost interest in me now? should i ask him whats happening now or what? Please help me

[mortensorchid]

You don't really know this person, do you? YOu are texting with each other after the get together, what are your texts about? Are you texting and he is just responding? Need a bit more info.