napy666 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Not too long ago I viewed my ex boyfriend's Facebook and noticed he still has his OLD MySpace linked on it, I clicked it and it was the MySpace account of when him and I were together, same info, photos of us, etc. Do YOU think him leaving the link up on his Facebook means anything like he still may have feelings for me or he left it there because he forgot to remove it off his Facebook? He did remove EVERYTHING else that was of him and I, photos, posts, etc. BUT yet that MySpace is linked to his Facebook and still active. Its like he still has feelings for me etc. But he does have a new partner he's been with for 8 months now. So what do YOU think?
sedona Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 If he had feelings for you, he wouldn't be with someone else. He'd be with you. Forget about what he does or does not do on FB. It doesn't matter.
na49 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 He forgot/doesn't care to change it. No one uses Myspace anymore lol.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Not too long ago I viewed my ex boyfriend's Facebook and noticed he still has his OLD MySpace linked on it, I clicked it and it was the MySpace account of when him and I were together, same info, photos of us, etc. Do YOU think him leaving the link up on his Facebook means anything like he still may have feelings for me or he left it there because he forgot to remove it off his Facebook? He did remove EVERYTHING else that was of him and I, photos, posts, etc. BUT yet that MySpace is linked to his Facebook and still active. Its like he still has feelings for me etc. But he does have a new partner he's been with for 8 months now. So what do YOU think? I knew he was done with me,BUT left a link up so there is HOPE.....lol I know you are sad, but this is the farthest stretch Ive ever seen. Social networks shouldn't play any role in a broken relationship.
OJ loved Nicole Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 But he does have a new partner he's been with for 8 months now. Wow, 8 months with someone else and you're still looking for clues..... 8 months with someone else should be your BIGGEST clue.
Author napy666 Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 I've been trying to forget about him and move on but haven't had much luck in the dating scene.
denxnis Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Napy, After reading some of your prior topics/posts etc I noticed a certain "tone" per say... Allow me to clarify. Rather than searching for a partner why not work on yourself and just enjoy life? Go to the gym, read books at coffee shops, and just work on making your single life more enjoyable. When you are truly happy with yourself and your life men will notice this and you will find the right guy. Don't expect to find a guy who will solve all of your problems because the last thing we want is a girl who's life revolves around the relationship.
Author napy666 Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 Napy, After reading some of your prior topics/posts etc I noticed a certain "tone" per say... Allow me to clarify. Rather than searching for a partner why not work on yourself and just enjoy life? Go to the gym, read books at coffee shops, and just work on making your single life more enjoyable. When you are truly happy with yourself and your life men will notice this and you will find the right guy. Don't expect to find a guy who will solve all of your problems because the last thing we want is a girl who's life revolves around the relationship. I can't find happiness with myself. And I can't go out much really because I suffer from anxiety and depression so its hard for me to go out let alone date.
Inviv_girl Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I can't find happiness with myself. And I can't go out much really because I suffer from anxiety and depression so its hard for me to go out let alone date. I suffer the same, 4 months post break up now and Im still crying! the pain never go away. Same as you I cant go out much, beside of limited financial, I also live in a country side now. Regarding the social network, really you shouldnt bother with that at all! he probably dont use it anymore or just dont bother to delete the thing as it doesnt matter to him anymore. My ex- still have the pics of his ex on his facebook when he was with me, simply he doesnt bother to remove them and never have a look at them, along those times of our relationship he told me he loves me single day. If he loves you surely he wont be with that new girl for 8 months now. Chin up and get over it, its over and dont think of the stupid social network!
denxnis Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I can't find happiness with myself. And I can't go out much really because I suffer from anxiety and depression so its hard for me to go out let alone date. I'm going to be blunt, you need to overcome depression and anxiety, only then will you find a man who WANTS to be with you for more than just sex. Nobody wants to be in a relationship that brings on more headaches and problems, people want a relationship that enhances their current life. By telling people you suffer from anxiety/depression you are basically saying, "Hey you look like you don't have enough problems in life, let me add mine to your list". You need to bring positive energy, enjoyment, and other positive things into a relationship. Maybe after a few weeks of dating you can mention that you suffered/suffer from anxiety and what not, but I would steer clear of any negative/sad talk until you've been with someone for a little while. 1
crashvector Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Not too long ago I viewed my ex boyfriend's Facebook and noticed he still has his OLD MySpace linked on it, I clicked it and it was the MySpace account of when him and I were together, same info, photos of us, etc. Do YOU think him leaving the link up on his Facebook means anything like he still may have feelings for me or he left it there because he forgot to remove it off his Facebook? He did remove EVERYTHING else that was of him and I, photos, posts, etc. BUT yet that MySpace is linked to his Facebook and still active. Its like he still has feelings for me etc. But he does have a new partner he's been with for 8 months now. So what do YOU think? I think he forgot to remove the link.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I can't find happiness with myself. And I can't go out much really because I suffer from anxiety and depression so its hard for me to go out let alone date. You are going to have a hard time finding the right partner if you can't be right on your own. You need to work on you first and foremost. Another person will not complete you.
Author napy666 Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 Yeah I know I need to work on myself and I am trying to overcome my problems but it is hard you don't know what its like.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Yeah I know I need to work on myself and I am trying to overcome my problems but it is hard you don't know what its like. Of course it's hard. Most things worth doing are.
Pinky777 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Yeah I know I need to work on myself and I am trying to overcome my problems but it is hard you don't know what its like. Having suffered from anxiety and depression myself, I know how it is. It's way, way too easy to just let yourself be overtaken with these negative emotions and not do anything. Anxiety and depression can be a safe place to hide behind, an excuse not to act, because action involves some form of risk and rejection. I know all too well what it's like to spend days in bed, to not have any interest or motivation in doing anything. But I also believe that getting out there, faking it at first if you have to, will help you immensely. Clean your house. Start working out run in the countryside and take in the scenery there. Maybe learn a new language or learn to play the guitar. Something. It's tough to actually get the motivation to do these things sometimes, I know, but you're wasting your life pining over this guy and being sad. You only go around once, you know. You'll never get those days you lost back. 1
Author napy666 Posted January 3, 2013 Author Posted January 3, 2013 Having suffered from anxiety and depression myself, I know how it is. It's way, way too easy to just let yourself be overtaken with these negative emotions and not do anything. Anxiety and depression can be a safe place to hide behind, an excuse not to act, because action involves some form of risk and rejection. I know all too well what it's like to spend days in bed, to not have any interest or motivation in doing anything. But I also believe that getting out there, faking it at first if you have to, will help you immensely. Clean your house. Start working out run in the countryside and take in the scenery there. Maybe learn a new language or learn to play the guitar. Something. It's tough to actually get the motivation to do these things sometimes, I know, but you're wasting your life pining over this guy and being sad. You only go around once, you know. You'll never get those days you lost back. Yeah I know.
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