Maneater Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I just started talking to his new guy and we hooked up once. We've been talking ever since and def plan on seeing each other again. We plan on meeting up w each other on NYE after we hang out w our respective friends first. Only thing is I just got my period! He told me the first time we hooked up that he was going to cum during the bj and that I should slow down so we could still have sex. After sex he said I wore him out. Is that a positive thing when a guy says that? He seemed pretty satisfied afterwards and told me during sex that I'm extra tight. So do you think a bj for NYE will suffice? I also have this kick ass lingerie that he likes.
monicaelise Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 So do you think a bj for NYE will suffice? I also have this kick ass lingerie that he likes. Well your name is Maneater... 1
Keenly Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Oh yeah, it will do JUST fine. Men aren't exactly going to be like " WHAT? NO SEX? GET THE F OUT" when you are doing that instead. Also, yeah, if he said you wore him out, that's about as big as a compliment as you can get from a man after sex.
Author Maneater Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Oh yeah, it will do JUST fine. Men aren't exactly going to be like " WHAT? NO SEX? GET THE F OUT" when you are doing that instead. Also, yeah, if he said you wore him out, that's about as big as a compliment as you can get from a man after sex. Really, you're sure it's a compliment? Bc I was totally paranoid that he was insinuating that I was lazy in bed and didn't do any work. Lol.
Author Maneater Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Well your name is Maneater... good point
Keenly Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Really, you're sure it's a compliment? Bc I was totally paranoid that he was insinuating that I was lazy in bed and didn't do any work. Lol. Don't over think that. I can't speak for all men, but personally... and I'm sure its just a guy thing, If I can't move after sex, I am well satisfied. If every muscle in my upper body hurts from doing some work, I did it right. Trust me, there are no negative connotations to a statement like that. If it was bad, at all, he wouldn't have said ANYTHING.
Author Maneater Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Don't over think that. I can't speak for all men, but personally... and I'm sure its just a guy thing, If I can't move after sex, I am well satisfied. If every muscle in my upper body hurts from doing some work, I did it right. Trust me, there are no negative connotations to a statement like that. If it was bad, at all, he wouldn't have said ANYTHING. Thanks for the quick reply! I am new to the dating scene after a while so I feel out of touch w hook ups and all that. True, he is the type who would say nothing at all.
Fondue Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I find oral to be more enjoyable then straight up sex. If I was him, I would definitely find a BJ to be more than enough as a NYE dealie . It's nice to see a girl who is enthusiastic with that sort of thing. My hat goes off to you, miss.
Author Maneater Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 I find oral to be more enjoyable then straight up sex. If I was him, I would definitely find a BJ to be more than enough as a NYE dealie . It's nice to see a girl who is enthusiastic with that sort of thing. My hat goes off to you, miss. Thanks for reply. Good to know that men will be satisfied w bj.
Author Maneater Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 Any other thoughts men? Are you ok w just a bj?
Kamille Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Flo came? Good for her. Everyone deserves a good orgasm. As for your actual post, I heard this crazy wild rumor that men actually like bjs. I know, shocker. So I guess do what you feel like doing and assume he's into it.
Author Maneater Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 Flo came? Good for her. Everyone deserves a good orgasm. As for your actual post, I heard this crazy wild rumor that men actually like bjs. I know, shocker. So I guess do what you feel like doing and assume he's into it. thanks for the sarcasm
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