Mr.White Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Phew! I can say I did not like what I saw but it is helping me accept the fact that it is over, and reminds me of all the negatives about her. It did sting a bit but I find it to have helped me a lot more then it had set me back. Only 3 weeks since break started and 1 week since break up and I am feeling a lot better. NC still and it was a lot easier to fall out of love since I am young. (You know who posted that ) Thanks LS! These past 3 weeks have been a completely different experience and I am glad I had your help me see a bit clearer.
Amelie1980 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Phew! I can say I did not like what I saw but it is helping me accept the fact that it is over, and reminds me of all the negatives about her. It did sting a bit but I find it to have helped me a lot more then it had set me back. Only 3 weeks since break started and 1 week since break up and I am feeling a lot better. NC still and it was a lot easier to fall out of love since I am young. (You know who posted that ) Thanks LS! These past 3 weeks have been a completely different experience and I am glad I had your help me see a bit clearer. How did it move from break to break up?
Minadee Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Kudos to you for being strong enough to accept what she is writing! I "quit" twitter two weeks after the breakup as my ex was tweeting about how happy he was and how perfect his nights are with his new interest. It was far too painful to witness so I told him what a complete jerk he was being and quit twitter. I havn't really missed it all that much to be honest. I've relapsed a few times but I think my best friend had a giant go at him about how insensitive he was being. But I know i'm not strong enough to not care about what he's doing so your post has given me a little bit of hope.
Author Mr.White Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 How did it move from break to break up? We met up at her house, I had to be the one who break it off. She wanted to break up but did not have the will power, so I had to do it for her. Kudos to you for being strong enough to accept what she is writing! I "quit" twitter two weeks after the breakup as my ex was tweeting about how happy he was and how perfect his nights are with his new interest. It was far too painful to witness so I told him what a complete jerk he was being and quit twitter. I havn't really missed it all that much to be honest. I've relapsed a few times but I think my best friend had a giant go at him about how insensitive he was being. But I know i'm not strong enough to not care about what he's doing so your post has given me a little bit of hope. I still care for my ex (like I would not want her shooting drugs up) but I am letting go of my emotional attachment and do not mind who she kisses/sleeps with etc. I hope my post can help you let go of your ex, time and friends are key! I met new people from both genders (specially the opposite) and though in some new situations I made it awkward I have learned from it, but now I have made friendships that help made me realize that there really are more people out there you can form possible relationships with. Go out to lunch with old/new/close/distant friends, work out with them, or help them with a big favor. This is what I have been doing and in return they have shed me a new social life I hope this advice helps you.
Sugarkane Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I miss the oldschool days of no social media. Really why have twitter if you're not a celebrity and constantly self promoting something?
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