xolibbs93xo Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now. He always got emails from dating sites, and I never thought much of it. Until he started acting shady to me. I did my research, and found his online dating sites. He has his password the same for everything, so I easily knew it. On the sites, the say he joined about 100 days ago. And he has pictures up that he took while we been together. I looked farther into the site, and found disturbing things. He has that he is single. And he was talking to countless girls calling them babe and saying there beautiful. Asking for numbers, all on the 24th of this month. So only about 6 days ago. I confronted him about it. He denied, denied, denied. Then today, he admitts he talked to one girl, but months ago. He said they flirted online, and that was it. And that it was MY FAULT because my ex of 2 years ago tried to contact me. I couldnt help that my ex wanted to talk to me. I had one conversation with me ex, IN FRONT of my now boyfriend. He still wont admitt to the site I found. He says he was "framed". He keeps telling me he loves me, he cant lose me, Im everything to him. Im all he has. So I was woundering what your guys views are on this situation. What would you do if you were in this situation.
Keenly Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Honestly you should leave. Snooping is bad, and you probably shouldn't have done that. But infidelity > snooping. Cat's out of the bag now.
TheFinalWord Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now. He always got emails from dating sites, and I never thought much of it. Until he started acting shady to me. I did my research, and found his online dating sites. He has his password the same for everything, so I easily knew it. On the sites, the say he joined about 100 days ago. And he has pictures up that he took while we been together. I looked farther into the site, and found disturbing things. He has that he is single. And he was talking to countless girls calling them babe and saying there beautiful. Asking for numbers, all on the 24th of this month. So only about 6 days ago. I confronted him about it. He denied, denied, denied. Then today, he admitts he talked to one girl, but months ago. He said they flirted online, and that was it. And that it was MY FAULT because my ex of 2 years ago tried to contact me. I couldnt help that my ex wanted to talk to me. I had one conversation with me ex, IN FRONT of my now boyfriend. He still wont admitt to the site I found. He says he was "framed". He keeps telling me he loves me, he cant lose me, Im everything to him. Im all he has. So I was woundering what your guys views are on this situation. What would you do if you were in this situation. He's a liar and cheater. You should end it now. Don't debate with him. Sorry that happened. Be glad you found after 10 months instead of 10 years. 5
Ruby Slippers Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 He said he's single. Let him be. Break up with him and go NO CONTACT. You can do better than this. 1
veggirl Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Why would you even CONSIDER staying? He is saying he loves you, are his actions lining up with that? No, he is actively seeking other women out You should probably also get tested in case he met up with and slept with them. He's a lying, cheating POS, I don't think you're gonna find anyone on here who would advise you to stay with him. You have the proof RIGHT in front of your face that he is a liar and a cheater. 2
Yookie Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 You really need someone to tell you what to do while the evidence is smacking you HARD in your face?
phineas Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 He was "framed" ROTFLMAO! if you believe that, well then you deserve what you get. 1
KungFuJoe Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Lets not jump to conclusions without knowing HIS side of the story, people. LOL. Just kidding. Drop the loser.
mortensorchid Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Get out now, he lied about being on the website he'll lie about something else as well.
Maneater Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 My friend was in this same exact situation. She stayed w him even though everyone told her not to do. After she forgives him, he still leaves her after 1 year of marriage. They are now divorced. Leave this guy! I know it's easier said than done but what he did is crossing all lines. And he came up w a really lame excuse! I almost laughed reading this. It's bad enough when men cheat w an old ex who someone they just met through a friend at work or something but this guy spent the TIME to make a profile to cheat. Premeditated cheating is a big no no. Sorry this isn't what you want to hear but like someone else said, at least you didn't waste 10 yrs!
Minka333 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Douchebags will lie about anything...that's their talent They are total waste of time, effort and saliva. It is like asking a brick for sympathy and love. They would repeat the same crap over and over. Contentment is not in their dictionary. They think they can go on forever fooling women by talking out of their ass. So better to save yourself from a lifetime of disaster with men like these.
phineas Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Douchebags will lie about anything...that's their talent They are total waste of time, effort and saliva. It is like asking a brick for sympathy and love. They would repeat the same crap over and over. Contentment is not in their dictionary. They think they can go on forever fooling women by talking out of their ass. So better to save yourself from a lifetime of disaster with men like these. Tell us more about the saliva part.
soccerrprp Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Do yourself a HUGE favor and leave him! He has proven to be a liar and cheater. Sorry.
Minka333 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 Tell us more about the saliva part. Haha! Wasn't referring to the kinky usage of saliva...
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