dare4u Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Hello friends, I met one girl at conference and we chat almost 1 .5 month ,not regularly.she told me about her dream and life partner she want.she is writing thesis and have exam in feb ,so kind of busy,some time i get angry when she reply late or i think she is not interested.I am going to meet her next week. I like her a lot and i am going to make wollen sweater or Cap or shoe by my hand even though i dont know but will learn.(She is from conservative famliy ,so she says she dont meet to much boys becuase she dont want to see her with any one and get to know her parents) .Also i am gonna make one website some thing related to boutique bec she want to do such business in far future.But i thought why not now ,just take initiative. One day i got angry when she told me i dont have time these days.And i closed my Facebook and next day she replied what happens.if its bec of me then u should understand instead of stop talking..I feel sometime girl using me whenever she has time she talks ..but any way i love her..will do what my heart says. I am in love and i dont know if i rejected i am gonna give her my hand made wollen sweater and website that i will make..becuase my heart says that.. Do you girls think will any girl like it or have positive effect or will think that i am right guy who fullfuill her dreams and love her? Please suggest me Regards DARE
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 She has made it clear you are not a priority, because she is busy. She has never made it a secret, and her lifestyle has confirmed this. Yet you keep getting angry with her, because you feel she is not paying you enough attention, and reacting vindictively? Very immature of you. How old are you both? Don't waste time making her anything. Just back off a bit and let her take the lead. It may prove good, it may not. In any case, your persistence is going to end up being very irritating.... Oh, and one more word of advice - don't refer to women as 'girls' - unless you want answers from any female under the age of 13. 3
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 It's obvious you are not an English speaker. And you're expressing possessiveness and that's bad. I never encountered men like this until i came to Europe. Relax and back off. No amount of hissyfits or websites will make her into you.
Pinky777 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Honestly I'd be creeped out if a guy knitted me something for our first date. You have no right to get angry with her for being busy when she's in grad school going for her thesis! The fact that your first reaction is anger is not a good sign my friend. She won't have time for a relationship with you anyway.
Author dare4u Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Ja,i agree ..i confess.i m bad..i am not like as i am with my others female friends..she is 23 and i am 24 yr old.Ja,i understand that she has exams and other things to do..I also helped her for it..also she liked it. Okayl..so how i can save to screw up?i m going to meet her tomorrow after work.... thnx my freinds Dare
sharsh Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 First of all, don't make her a sweater.. or shoes.. or whatever lol. That's sort of weird, imo. Second of all, stop freaking out when she doesn't immediately reply, or have time for you every day. You said so yourself, the woman is busy with other things. You should be happy she is willing to spend her free time with you at all, with how busy she is. If you can't handle that, and you need someone more attentive, right now - she is not for you then.
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