livy Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I've been divorced 4 2.5 yrs. I tried everything 2 get him back & everyway to move on. I now have an amazing man in my life & we mutually want 2 be each others forever. I can't shake my ex! Its not a matter of simple regret, I legitimately am still as passionately in love with my ex as the day we were married. I've got angry, mourned, all the fun of being.g separated from the one I call soul mate... but I can't seem to grasp how I fully heal & finally move on from him. I'm just waiting to exhale. Someone help!
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Does your current man know about your feelings for your ex? Do you 'compare'...? have you had therapy/counselling? Basically, the bottom line he's still on your mind is because you want him to be there. You don't WANT to let go of how amazing it was. You need to be fair and complete in your emotional input to your current beau. Until you do, no matter how great he is - he only has a part of you. Without knowing it, he's getting second best. Is that fair? 1
Angel Heart Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Perhaps you should reside with yourself that you will always have feelings for your former spouse and put it in perspective. Letting go of a loved one is difficult and takes time to move on. Fortunately, you have a succesfull relationship now and are blessed to be able to feel love for someone else. And, of course, to be loved. Have you consider getting a bit of therapy? It can be a helpful way to put yourself in a better place. I've been divorced for over 17 yrs and tend to still think what could have, should have, would have happened if we were able to stay married. I still think of him and now hope him well. Well, sometimes I reminisce and remember how wrong he treated me. Do you have children from your former spouse?
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