counterman Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 So I've been hanging out with my friend and his cousin in a group for a couple of months now and I am attracted to her. I know she isn't interested in me that way and, from our conversations, I know she's not right for me and I'm not right for her. However, I have this overwhelming feeling of physical attraction. I'm trying to shake it off but it's still lingering and driving me a bit crazy. I'm thinking of just limiting my contact with her, to only talk to her in a group situation and not 1-on-1. What else can I do?
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 stalk her, lure her into bed with fantastic promises, then dump her....? No, on second thoughts, your plan's probably better.... 1
Author counterman Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Thanks! Recently, she's been talking to me a lot, since she broke up with her boyfriend a month ago... She says she doesn't like it when guys talk about themselves all the time and yet she keeps talking about herself. Probably best that I don't talk to her 1-on-1 anymore Plus, my friend would probably beat me up if I made a move
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Why would he? There's nothing wrong with you dating her if that's what you both wanted. However, from my perspective it would be a bad idea for your friendship if you did - but it wouldn't be any of his business.... that would be on you....
Author counterman Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 He's made it clear that no one is to touch his cousin. But I guess you're right - it's really up to her and I. I wouldn't ask her out, knowing that we aren't compatible. It's so weird, I'm not use to feeling this way for a friend. Ah well, I'll deal with it.
Recommended Posts