IMARRIEDAREALBYTCH Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I have been married for only 1 year and my wife took my son and left me the day after our 1 year anniversary...where do i begin? I married my wife under false pretenses, she thought i had stability although i explained to her my situation before we actually got married. just a little background for ya-even when my wife believed i was stable she slept with her ex the night she asked me to marry her, this shows me her true character, even tho she didnt know i was broke it wouldnt have mattered anyway. She also told me her ex was her best friend and he would still call and text her the week we got married. I had to beg her to cut off communication with him but he remains in her life and around her family still to this day. The reason she left is because I told her to pack her things and go back home because the whole year we would argue and she would constantly go back and forth claiming she missed her family. Now that she is back home she says I need to be more understanding of her needs and not pressure her for sex and just cuddle and help with the baby more because I dont understand how her body needs to rest. wtf am I supposed to do?
KraftDinner Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 The title of this thread and your user name don't compute. 5
Radu Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 The title of this thread and your user name don't compute. LOL OP, is the kid yours ?
movingon12 Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 The reason she left is because I told her to pack her things and go back home because the whole year we would argue and she would constantly go back and forth claiming she missed her family. Now that she is back home she says I need to be more understanding of her needs and not pressure her for sex and just cuddle and help with the baby more because I dont understand how her body needs to rest. wtf am I supposed to do? What are you supposed to do? Well as a start you could consider a) not telling her to pack and things and go back home, b) be more understanding of her needs, c) stop pressuring her for sex and just cuddle and d) help with the baby more. Just a thought. 3
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I have been married for only 1 year and my wife took my son and left me the day after our 1 year anniversary...where do i begin? I married my wife under false pretenses, she thought i had stability although i explained to her my situation before we actually got married. just a little background for ya-even when my wife believed i was stable she slept with her ex the night she asked me to marry her, this shows me her true character, even tho she didnt know i was broke it wouldnt have mattered anyway. She also told me her ex was her best friend and he would still call and text her the week we got married. I had to beg her to cut off communication with him but he remains in her life and around her family still to this day. The reason she left is because I told her to pack her things and go back home because the whole year we would argue and she would constantly go back and forth claiming she missed her family. Now that she is back home she says I need to be more understanding of her needs and not pressure her for sex and just cuddle and help with the baby more because I dont understand how her body needs to rest. wtf am I supposed to do? Do you really want her back? Sound like a whole lot of unresolved problems here. You profess you want her back, but your forum-name suggests anger issues... How old is your son? Does 'cuddling and hugging' her mean you want sex? is that the message she's getting? That whatever affection you show leads to - and is actually because you want - sex? A woman's body actually takes around a year and a half to fully recover from the process of being pregnant and giving birth. It's been responsible for nearly a year, for nurturing, growing and carrying a separate human life, and that takes some doing, and takes an awful lot out of you. That aside, there's more here than just this factor. Her ex, infidelity and your joint failure to resolve problems is a huge mountain to climb. Where do you think you should begin to build bridges? 1
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