lilyblue Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 But I just don't know how. I've tried and I've tried. It's been a year and a couple of months but I just still want some closure from the man who dumped me without a word. The "closure from within" hasn't worked. It is making me crazy and I can't get out of my own head. I'm unhappy, everything seems pointless and I'm just sick of it all.
MyAngel Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Oh lily I'm sorry you're still suffering. I cannot understand how people can walk away without a goodbye. It is cruel and unnecessary. I at least got dumped by email :/ better than someone just walking away, but it still stings. And then I got told not to contact her ever again so I felt I couldn't reply to even say my piece. So I have struggled with the concept of closure as well. A lot of people say closure is from within and you eventually move on but you are testament to that sometimes it is so hard to move on. I hope you can find some peace soon.
fenderjames Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Hi Lily , same boat here ..... not a word . happened 15 months ago. pretty rough go of things eh ? Heres to a new year and to ppl who actually have a heart . cheers to you
Author lilyblue Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Thanks for both your replies. Oddly enough I just found out this morning that they are re-engaged (my ex and his ex-wife). Good way to start the day. I'm not sure why it's so hard for me to move on. I just can't even seem to get a start on it.
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