Clockwork Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 How bad was this? Maybe some people have this similar problem I had many times with an ex-girlfriend. Alright, the story is we went out for a couple of years. I was very attracted to her, but she was nuts and mostly unlikeable. That being said she was pretty and I went crazy lusting after her. I was always after her for sex to the point where I almost did anything because I was so horny. Sometimes out of the blue she would reject sex just before we were planning on doing it. She was erratic so she would do this if she didn't like something I said or got out of the mood. I got so jacked up for sex from her that when I got turned down I had to relieve myself. However, she had this knack of stopping me from masturbating even if she turned down sex and knew I was painfully horny. I'd go in the other room and she'd say "you'd better not be jacking off". Believe me she would ensure I wasn't and interrupt any attempt at it. Or if I tried having a shower. I couldn't lock the door because she knew I would be up to something. Needless to say I have some very tough sleeps, because she'd still sleep next to me dressed in a slim outfit not thinking anything of it. So did anyone else have an ex (current wife?) that did/does this?
dexterfan Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 OMG LOL. Your ex was a manipulative pyscho! She did that to punish you if she didn't get her way? I couldn't imagine being with someone like that.
Radu Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Sounds like she had a need to control. She basically made sure to get you horny, made you desperate for relief from her, and removed the possibility of relieving yourself. Which means that she held the monopoly on any kind of release ... and you know well enough how it turned out. Either she liked to dominate [and had aspirations for being a dominatrix/cuckholdress] or she had serious mental problems. Haven't met anything to this extent. 1
CptObvious Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 bro your bitch aka portable vagina was broken. Either fix it with your pimp hand or get a new bitch. Gettin blueballed like that might have taken a good 10 years off your life.
KungFuJoe Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 How bad was this? Maybe some people have this similar problem I had many times with an ex-girlfriend. Alright, the story is we went out for a couple of years. I was very attracted to her, but she was nuts and mostly unlikeable. That being said she was pretty and I went crazy lusting after her. I was always after her for sex to the point where I almost did anything because I was so horny. Sometimes out of the blue she would reject sex just before we were planning on doing it. She was erratic so she would do this if she didn't like something I said or got out of the mood. I got so jacked up for sex from her that when I got turned down I had to relieve myself. However, she had this knack of stopping me from masturbating even if she turned down sex and knew I was painfully horny. I'd go in the other room and she'd say "you'd better not be jacking off". Believe me she would ensure I wasn't and interrupt any attempt at it. Or if I tried having a shower. I couldn't lock the door because she knew I would be up to something. Needless to say I have some very tough sleeps, because she'd still sleep next to me dressed in a slim outfit not thinking anything of it. So did anyone else have an ex (current wife?) that did/does this? This is beyond absurd. Honestly, I have a hard time believing this, but then again, Ive been with some crazy women so I guess anything is possible. Either way...holy crap...just be happy she's your EX!
TaraMaiden Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 READ - greznog.... There's no kicking out to be done... She's his ex. In fact I don't see the point of the post, frankly. Good thing she's an ex. Move on, find a girl who ticks every box. Sorted.... 2
phineas Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 OP, you should of jerked off on her while she slept so when she woke up her face looked like a glazed doughnut. 2
Els Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 No, I absolutely don't know anyone who has done this or put up with it. Good Lord...
weee111 Posted December 31, 2012 Posted December 31, 2012 I would've just just held her down and nutted on her haha 1
Author Clockwork Posted December 31, 2012 Author Posted December 31, 2012 Yes folks this is an ex, just to be clear. This was happening in my life nearly 10 years ago. And to answer a couple of questions, yes she had some mental issues. Her father had left her and she was a girl with serious mental issues. Why did I stay that long? I loved her, wanted to help her and when we did have sex she orgasmed like Niagara Falls multiple times. I loved having sex with her very much. Obviously now that I am out of that situation and in a very healthy and happy one I can look at it and be able to see the things I should have done. I went to bed several nights very "uncomfortable" so to speak. She was very controlling for sure, but I guess I just thought that if I was good and didn't overreact we'd have sex. She was just very erratic and over the years I learned one clear thing, that is sexual abuse by a partner if there ever is. And yeah guys can be as stupid as girls and stay with a lame partner. There was one time we went to a fancy hotel during a weak time in our relationship and I thought it would help. We checked in, went out to eat and came back. I assumed we were going to have sex. She wanted to go to bed. $300 for just sleeping. I was mad and eventually settled down to sleep. However, when you are that horny you wake up in the middle of the night wanting things so I woke up, she was lying there asleep in nothing but a pink nightgown and I just destroyed her (don't worry, she awoke and consented to it). That was a rare victory for me. But believe me ladies, do NOT intentionally withold sex from your partner (unless of course you are waiting for marriage and it is understood). It is not fair and your partner will resent you.
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