crashvector Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I just got two emails from my ex fiance. They were forwarded emails that two of my female friends sent to her. I just replied to her saying "Oh my God, I'm SO sorry. I promise you, I had NO idea they would do this, and while they were accurate, will tell them to please stop. I do NOT want them doing anything like to increase your pain. I do hope to be able to talk to you soon... I miss you." yeah yeah...I shouldnt have added the "I miss you part" but what else was I supposed to say? I really had NO idea my friends would do that. I understand they had good intentions, but honestly...they probably just screwed up any goodwill we had because I was TRYING to give her space to heal before I asked her meet me face to face so that i could get some closure.
OJ loved Nicole Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I would've responded: "You think I had my friends email you? You leave me as we are planning a wedding without reason (in a really nasty way) and you think I'd waste another second thinking of you? I didn't tell them to email you, I'm not going to tell them to stop. Answer me this, why would I scold my friends who care about me to spare the feeling of someone who has told me they don't? Don't contact me again, deal with your own problems." 1
Author crashvector Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 I would've responded: "You think I had my friends email you? You leave me as we are planning a wedding without reason (in a really nasty way) and you think I'd waste another second thinking of you? I didn't tell them to email you, I'm not going to tell them to stop. Answer me this, why would I scold my friends who care about me to spare the feeling of someone who has told me they don't? Don't contact me again, deal with your own problems." I guess what my friends say about me is true...I'm just a soft-hearted man. I can't bring myself to be mean or harsh to her. Hell, I couldnt even be mean to my ex wife after what SHE did to me. although this break up hurts FAR more, what my ex WIFE did was far WORSE. The reply she sent to one of my friends is as follows (cut and pasted) "Hi Angela, No, I am not in a good place right now. This situation is excruciatingly painful for both of us, I’m sure. I am glad Matt has friends who love him and will support him during this difficult time. He is, indeed, a good man who deserves to be happy. I love him and wish the very best for him. The details about why our relationship has come to an end are for him to tell." This is the one I replied to telling her I was very sorry they did that.
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