charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 My god i busted my butt for 14months Got in shape my acne is all gone my Bloated face normal again... I made a OLD account got some replies the only woman I emailed told me i was To pretty to date and my pics were not Real and if i was real id have no reason to Be OLD for any reason but sex. She also said she cant date a guy that's Prettier then she is. So am i officially "to pretty to date" For real am i to pretty to date ? Wtf happened i was a fat bloated Acne infested slob could not get a date Now im to pretty?
SmileFace Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 You really believe everything you read online? Would you even want to be with someone who is so insecure that they technically tell you that you are stealing someone elses pictures? 2
monicaelise Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 No, you're not too pretty to date. It's great that you've gotten in shape and cleaned up your act, but you probably (like all of us) still have a great deal of work to do on your personality. You've improved, but you're not an Adonis. You look like an average guy who takes care of himself. That's not a bad thing to be, but don't delude yourself into believing your improved appearance is the thing that's getting in the way of your dating options. You still look like a regular guy. 2
Mrlonelyone Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 If you don't mind hearing it from me yes you are a very attractive male. Are you too good to be real on OLD perhaps. In particular in the eyes of women who have low self esteem or a low self assessment of their own mate value. Women with good self esteem and confidence won't say that to you. The solution is for you to message those women who don't reply all that often. 5*'s 9-10 out of 10. It's kinda like being overqualified for a job...sucks dosen't it? I can relate to what you must feel after hearing that. Bisexuals, because we have a proven ability to seduce members of either sex, are presumed to be impossible to keep unattainable attractive sex fiends. Guarantee'd to cheat on any mere mortal. Those who are exceptionally good looking and heterosexual can be stigmatized too. There is a cost to being too far from the fat part of the bell curve.
Author charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 This is the pic she refered to Claiming i look to good to be true Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting
mesmerized Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 This is the pic she refered to Claiming i look to good to be true Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting You look good. That girl was insecure about her own looks. I wouldn't have an issue dating you. 2
Author charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Your right guys In my old profile i put no kids have a stable job no criminal Record excersize regularly eat healthy. I think in the OLD world seeing a guy That looks normal sounds normal No baggage but seem " to good to be true" Thanks mrlonley i feel loosing 40lbs made me "attractive" vs non attractive Im a fun loving guy i think i have a great personality But im looking for someone with out kids Non smoker non drinker close to my age and picky in that sense not about a womens looks But just getting along
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Maybe Shes complimenting you??? Or she's really into gingers. 1
monicaelise Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 This is the pic she refered to Claiming i look to good to be true Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting Honestly, there's a certain smugness to that shot that is a bit off putting in a Zoolander kind of way. As a woman, with reasonable self esteem, I would interpret a shot like that as "he thinks he's too pretty to date", rather than "he's too pretty to date". Again, you look like a regular old bloke to me (not unattractive, but not someone I personally would probably even notice). I wouldn't worry too much about your appearance being too good for the average girl. Try smiling. A smile makes just about everyone more accessible. 1
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I was on OLD and its kinda scary. Most profiles look fake to me because Im picky and most guys are trying to look cool instead of showing personality quirks which are way sexier than a jaw line IMO. 1
GirlontheLam Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 This is the pic she refered to Claiming i look to good to be true Image - TinyPic - Free Image Hosting, Photo Sharing & Video Hosting OP, you are attractive. I think the weirdest thing is that you look so expressionless, and that photo is so "posed." Add some more pics that look a bit more natural and you'll be all set. But this reminds me of a message I got the other day on OLD. It was a guy who had an empty profile. Attractive, but based on his pic and profile, I would assume he was 1. a bot 2. not really interested in me (let's just say, he is a type that never approaches me in real life) He sent over one of those lame messages like "Hi!" I was bored and debating whether to respond, because his username was a hilarious, and definitely worth a snarky comment. But at the same moment I had 3 other conversations going on, via text and facebook so that was looking like too many things for my brain at that moment. Anyway a few minutes later he sent me another message saying "you didn't write back because I am white right?" So I wrote him back and told him the truth....your profile looks fake. So when the profile looks "too good to be true" you have to do something that humanizes you in the other person's eyes. 1
CptSaveAho Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 OLD = CLICK TO HAVE SEX If guys are looking for something more on there, then you are wasting your time Hence the "Too pretty to date" line that was thrown at you... btw she probably wanted you to bang her 1
amaysngrace Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 I think she's means you are too normal to online date. It probably wouldn't be hard for you to meet women in real life. So that makes you seem creepy because you aren't.
Author charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Uhhh guys i think the pic looks natural My last facepic a few replies were that I looked even faker.
suladas Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Maybe Shes complimenting you??? Or she's really into gingers. Where can these women be found???
Author charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Honestly, there's a certain smugness to that shot that is a bit off putting in a Zoolander kind of way. As a woman, with reasonable self esteem, I would interpret a shot like that as "he thinks he's too pretty to date", rather than "he's too pretty to date". Again, you look like a regular old bloke to me (not unattractive, but not someone I personally would probably even notice). I wouldn't worry too much about your appearance being too good for the average girl. Try smiling. A smile makes just about everyone more accessible. Ok ill loose the zooland staring into space face. I read on site men who smile in profile pics Get less messages men who look smug in pics Seem to give off confidence and happy with Themselves vibes
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 If a guy isn't smiling in his pictures i think he's got no teeth. Or he's not funny or open. Just me. If i saw a message in my inbox from you id think those exact things. Plus "this guy thinks he's hot".
GirlontheLam Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Try smiling. ^^^This! Your expressions look too "fake."
amaysngrace Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Yeah well that pic with no shirt on definitely makes you look like you want to get naked so I understand why she'd think you only want sex.
Nightsky Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Your first major issue is your using and apparently relying on OLD to get dates. Also on here at least you come off as pretty insecure. You need to be a little more bold, confident in your approach to women. Your worry shouldn't be finding a girl, but the right girl. I mean getting a pretty face isn't all that hard, finding some one you can trust and care about is a different story. 1
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Yeah your new profile picture is worse :/ youre cute. But i automatically skip and ignore shirtless men on OLD.
sweetkiwi Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 Where can these women be found??? Man you shouldve caught me at 19. I loooooooved the gingers. Now i guess I've switched to thin bearded guys since that's what my vagina has been into lately.
Author charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Yeah your new profile picture is worse :/ youre cute. But i automatically skip and ignore shirtless men on OLD. Thanks kiwi ... Ill wear a shirt.. That pic i was in swim trunks just got out of the hottube I think im just gonna have some professional pics Taken cellphone pics dont turn out great.
KungFuJoe Posted December 30, 2012 Posted December 30, 2012 OMG charlie...what are you doing? I feel like I wanna roll up a newspaper and whack you with it while rubbing your nose in those pics you are taking. STOP! Trash/delete all of them. Put a nice shirt on. SMILE! 4
Author charlietheginger Posted December 30, 2012 Author Posted December 30, 2012 Man you shouldve caught me at 19. I loooooooved the gingers. Now i guess I've switched to thin bearded guys since that's what my vagina has been into lately. Did i mention im growing a beard?
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